nervous about fingerin

[sexywelshbabe]

ok, so here it is, me with another prob sounding inexperienced as usual but it seems that you guys are the best for advice!

well my ex boyfriend has got with another girl and its not a problem with me what so ever because i finished it and we are like best mates! we talk bout everything together, anyway he recently got together with this otha bird and they have been really close, thing is shes kinky and he "was" a goodboy but since being bith her has lost his v-plates in the space of 2 weeks, well of course my bf is also best m8s wiv my ex and so talks about these things and hearing about his new kinky side wants to do things with me. Again something i have no problem with other than im inexperienced ( so is he) but when it comes to fingerin i dont know. I have heard bout girls gettin fingered at school at the rumours arents good. I mean what if im not totally normal in that region ( im not saying im not normal because i dont know) i mean im clean an everything and i dont smell but...is it necassary for him to look down there when hes doing it? im so confused :S an im not doing this just coz of my ex btw!:confused: :(

[~kaz~]

You shouldn't let him do it unless your comfortable with it. It's nothing to be scared about though if you do decide to let him do it then just relax. Don't worry about your below regions there is no such thing as normal, everyone is different. He doesn't have to look down there when he is fingering you however if he does he won't mock or make fun of you or anything.

Anyway just don't worry about it and only do it if you want to and feel comfortable with it.

[Amira]

dont worry about him fingering you. as lil miss said....dont let him do it unless your ready...and make sure he finds your g-spot...thats the best part :p

[Godders]

Originally posted by The Icy Aphrodite
dont worry about him fingering you. as lil miss said....dont let him do it unless your ready...and make sure he finds your g-spot...thats the best part :p

Appparently the clit is better!:p

[Amira]

Originally posted by curiouslad
Appparently the clit is better!:p

like hell no....my g-spot is heavenly

[Kermit]

Everyone is "normal" down there, so don't worry.

As for looking, sometimes it's nice to look at what you're stroking, but normally it's even nicer to kiss and cuddle whilst doing it. Just make sure he's gentle and tender.

[the sole liber]

Heh, when I was at school some boys used to say girls pussies smelled of fish.:rolleyes: :eek2:

Obviously that's crap, unless she has some kind of gynaecologiacal problem. So if your healthy down there, it shouldn't smell!:yes:

He may need to look down there to put it in initially but he doesn't HAVE to when he's thrusting.

[Godders]

Originally posted by the sole liber
Heh, when I was at school some boys used to say girls pussies smelled of fish.:rolleyes: :eek2:

Obviously that's crap, unless she has some kind of gynaecologiacal problem. So if your healthy down there, it shouldn't smell!:yes:

He may need to look down there to put it in initially but he doesn't HAVE to when he's thrusting.

corse it smells down there!:confused:

It dosnt smell of fish cos i would puke up if i went down on my gf but it smells.

[freak]

Originally posted by The Icy Aphrodite
like hell no....my g-spot is heavenly
wish i could find mine!no guys had any luck either.if a guy knows what to do with my clit im one happy bunny.i prefer more done on my clit+around there rather than inside me.though if i get both together i really dont mind ;)

btw school rumours are always worth ignorin.find out things for urself+make your own opinion of things:)

[wheresmyplacebo]

from your previous posts it seemsl ike your bf wants you to do a lot, and your just eager to please... and im not one to dish out morals etccause im no saint but... only do it if you want to do it and feel very comfortable with it, it should just feel like a step up no a giant leap

[Mr_Wobble]

Originally posted by the sole liber
Heh, when I was at school some boys used to say girls pussies smelled of fish.:rolleyes: :eek2: Who? The virgins whose closest experience with pussy had been in a pet shop?

[solid_L]

lol what do u think is the closest smell to the pussy smell? Its hard to describe really lol

[Zella]

It just smells of pussy. Thats it. End of. Full stop. Bla.

[solid_L]

Originally posted by Zella
It just smells of pussy. Thats it. End of. Full stop. Bla.

lol yea, it doesnt smell of anything, it is its own original thing:o

[JsT]

The smell of pussy should be bottled and sold on.

[solid_L]

I dunno, if the girls not showered in the last few days then I wouldn't be in the queue buying it....

well ok i would, but im a perve:p

[Kermit]

Originally posted by freak
wish i could find mine!

The g-spot is a myth and many girls don't actually have one.

[Mr_Wobble]

Originally posted by sexywelshbabe
what if im not totally normal in that region ( im not saying im not normal because i dont know) i mean im clean an everything and i dont smell but...is it necassary for him to look down there when hes doing it? im so confused :S an im not doing this just coz of my ex btw!:confused: :( You are normal. Trust me, you're normal. Don't worry about it.

And why shouldn't he look? He gets turned on by it. By seeing you naked. By seeing you excited, aroused, flushed, and wet. He enjoys seeing his fingers touching, stroking, penetrating, pleasing, teasing, you. After all, don't you enjoy seeing him naked, and touching him?
You should revel in the fact that he's so excited and aroused at exploring your body, and pleasing you. :naughty:

[~kaz~]

Originally posted by Kermit
The g-spot is a myth and many girls don't actually have one.

Well my boyfriend found mine the other week when I was on top of him and when we did doggy and believe me it's there you just have to find it.

[freak]

g-spot is not thought as a part of the female anatomy so :p i js need to find the bugger

[spanner]

Hi there
It's perfectly normal to be concerned about whether you are 'normal' and what to do. The thing is, there is no such thing as normal - our genitals are all different just as our faces and body shapes are all different. As your sexual relationships develop you will learn about what your body likes, but it is a process. For the moment, just make sure that you feel comfortable with your boyfriend and that you are both ready for every step that you take, and try not to compare yourself to others - everyone becomes ready for sex at different times and there's nothing wrong with waiting.

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Hope this helps

[Kermit]

Originally posted by *lil~miss*
Well my boyfriend found mine the other week when I was on top of him and when we did doggy and believe me it's there you just have to find it.

Some girls have one and some girls don't. I know exactly where the g-spot is, I just know from experience that not all girls have one.