Re: long time no see, guys

[beerboy]

hiya guys, i havnt posted here for a long time so noone will probly remember me but here goes anyway.

i have got myself into quite a mess
last week i slept with one of my friends girlfriends and this wasnt just s drunk thing cause i've been with her since. She says that she wants to be with me but she wont leave her bf and i want to be with her. He knows everything but he has just forgiven her...... too easyly which leads me to beleive that she hasnt told him everything. i know that i shouldnt get together with her but i dont think that im gonna make that decision. any advice would be much appreciated.

sorry about not making much grammatical sence but i have been drowning my sorrows all weekend, perhaps not a good idea as i have to open my shop at 5:00 tomorrow morning.

beerboy

[ShyBoy]

Fuck, do you know how much this must hurt your mate? :( Think about it from this perspective. You and said girl (cos you obviously have feelings for her so it's easier to use her as a thingy) have been going out for a long time. Then she sleeps with your mate. You forgive her, but then she dumps you and goes off with said mate.

How much worse can he shit on you?

I'd always put my friends first :thumb: I have a very nice calender on the wall in my room if I should ever feel any other way inclined. I'm not having a go because I know how intense and strong these feelings can get but most relationships last a few weeks if that and friendships can last a lifetime.

My friends would never do it to me so I'd never do it to them. Then again, if you really like her and you're not bothered about this mate of yours then I don't see why you don't go ahead. No regrets as they say? :confused:

Third option as I can see: she dumps mate and you and her keep it under wraps for a while. That way your mate won't be as hurt. Unless of course he finds out, in which case he'll probably be after your blood anyways :)

[beerboy]

i feel fucking awful about all of this but i dont think that is gonna stop me making another big mistake. i stand by my homer simpson quote "Here's to beer, the cause and solution of all of lifes problems"

[ShyBoy]

well if you've decided already what you're going to do you should first: decide whether you want to let your mate know or not? are you going to block him out or are you going to be straight with him? Then, talk to the girl. Afterall, she just may be overhorny and want to fuck about - and might not like you at all. She wouldn't be the first or the last girl to say she wants to leave her boyfriend for her bit on the side but never does. Then, well take whatever action you need to. Run away with her, (thats a joke) or do whatever.

good luck and i hope things work out for the best in the end? :confused:

[beerboy]

hmmmm, there is more to this than you know mate

[lipsy]

Originally posted by beerboy
hmmmm, there is more to this than you know mate
i think shyboy has given you some good advice. and he can only advise you on the information you give him.

[beerboy]

ground control to major tom.............sorry im too drunk

[lisa simpson's saxophone]

Originally posted by beerboy
hmmmm, there is more to this than you know mate

It pisses me off when people say things like that on here. You get advice on the basis of whatever you tell us. If you then turn around and say 'well you don't know the whole story' then whose fault is that? I just find that a bit ungrateful when someone's attempted to give you good advice.

[ClaireBear]

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CB

[molo]

if i was your mate i would cunt you up big style.