Too Late....?

[eminem_girl]

Hi

well here's my problem.I've been seeing this guy for about a month now - well, not really seeing eachother, we were shagging partners,we both agreed that neither of us wanted a relationship.

Thing is, over the last week he's started seeing someone. He didnt tell me - i had to hear it from a mate. Problem is, now that he's seeing someone ive realised just how much i really like him. I asked a mutual friend of ours about it and she told me that he's started seeing someone else because he wanted a relationship,not just a shagging partner! but now ive realised that i want a relationship with him too, instead of just a fling.

I dont know what to do now. Our mate says he really likes me and wanted more than just sex from me, but he's moved on because its a relatiionship he's after. I really like this guy and havent felt this way about anyone for a long,long time.

Should i tell him how i feel about him? Or do you think its too late and i should just let him get on with it?

i'm so confused. Any advice anyone can give me i would be very grateful.

thankyou

[molo]

fuck buddying is silly, are you sure its not just a case of want what you can't have?

[eminem_girl]

Originally posted by molo
are you sure its not just a case of want what you can't have?


At first thats what i thought it was. but my feelings for him are too intense to be a case of "what i can't have".

[ClaireBear]

Our article about fuck buddies (http://www.thesite.org/youthnet/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=256&a=2677) may help a bit.

CB