burning feeling/selfharming help please

[Hellfire]

Well ill cut to the point. i selfharmed/cut my wrist. and its hurting more than ever and theres a burning sensation. can anyone suggest any household thing that i might have laying round the house to help stop the burning sensation. the cuts have been clean and i uses detol to clean them with like i allways use. there has never been a problem before and this is the first time it has felt like this. please help and suggest something.

[Tweety]

Seek help from a doctor.

[Hellfire]

thanks for the advise tweety but i got it sorted i just put some cream on it and some ice feels alot better know. although the cuts are deeper and hurt more than useral. but only i can blame myself for that and i asked for it. although i do not regret cutting atm i will do in years to come i think.

[MySuffice21]

Originally posted by Rude_boyz
Well ill cut to the point. i selfharmed/cut my wrist. and its hurting more than ever and theres a burning sensation. can anyone suggest any household thing that i might have laying round the house to help stop the burning sensation. the cuts have been clean and i uses detol to clean them with like i allways use. there has never been a problem before and this is the first time it has felt like this. please help and suggest something.



I know how you felt, after doing this, because I had had many thoughs times when I had cut that it hurt and burned like hell, but some how, after putting certain things, on the cuts, it did feel better.

I really, truly know how you feel, because I have/had been there many of times so I really do know what ya mean.

[Hellfire]

Originally posted by MySuffice21
I know how you felt, after doing this, because I had had many thoughs times when I had cut that it hurt and burned like hell, but some how, after putting certain things, on the cuts, it did feel better.

I really, truly know how you feel, because I have/had been there many of times so I really do know what ya mean.

i know its strange because it is the first time it happened to me. and it bleed like SHIT i though i might cut a vein or artarry which kinda made me scared.

the only thing with me i tend to just leave the cuts to bleed but this time i had to cut something on it because it burnt. and the ice seemed to stop the bleeding thanks for ya support everyone ya a great bunch of people although not all of you have helped but alot have, i have been able to rely on thesite and i am Very greatfull for all the help and support everyone gives me. i just hope with my advise i have managed to help a few of you in return thank you guy:)

[Tweety]

Originally posted by Rude_boyz
thanks for the advise tweety but i got it sorted i just put some cream on it and some ice feels alot better know. although the cuts are deeper and hurt more than useral. but only i can blame myself for that and i asked for it. although i do not regret cutting atm i will do in years to come i think.

I still think you should seek help, my sister used to cut & really regrets it now, shes covered in scars. A reminder for life.
Please think hard about it.

[spanner]

Tweety is right, if you feel the need to self harm, you should really speak to someone about why you are feeling this way. There are many specialist helplines you can call confidentially, including:

SANELINE
Offers practical information, crisis care and emotional support to anybody affected by mental health problems. The service is open from 12 noon until 2am.
Telephone: 0845 767 8000
Website: www.sane.org.uk

Mind
For users of mental health services, their carers, professionals and the public.
Telephone: 08457 660163

The Samaritans are also a good organisation to call if you just need someone to talk to:

Samaritans
Confidential help for anyone who is suicidal or despairing.
Telephone: 08457 909090

[Hellfire]

thanks for the numbers although i am seeing a councillor about it all. i just had my apointment and it went pretty wello

thank you all for all you concern and help and support i have been given over there space of time i have been here.

thanks for the help and numbers although i am seeing a councillor they may come in handy. i am also going to see my doctoer about anti-depressents and i will proberlly be put on a course of them,


one again i thank you all.

[piccolo]

Hey, hang in there!

I have cut my wrist a few times, mostly because it hurts so much there. I know the feeling you're talking about. I guess it's some kinda deterrant that the areas where there are blood veins close to the surface are those that hurt most...

Keep seeing the counsellor, even if it feels painful, I reckon it's the best way to solve it. If you ever need to chat PM me.

Picc.
xxx

[Hellfire]

Originally posted by piccolo
Hey, hang in there!

I have cut my wrist a few times, mostly because it hurts so much there. I know the feeling you're talking about. I guess it's some kinda deterrant that the areas where there are blood veins close to the surface are those that hurt most...

Keep seeing the counsellor, even if it feels painful, I reckon it's the best way to solve it. If you ever need to chat PM me.

Picc.
xxx

Thank you. thats a kind comment. the councillor really helpfull and she say at the moment i should stop cutting as it MIGHT make me fall apart. the lastest cuts are the deepest and the most i ever done at once. my councillor said that i should go see my doc to see if there infected and to speak about anti depressents so when i have chance im making an apointment and going to see him.

thanks for all the help.

[Hellfire]

Originally posted by *Groovaybaby*
Rude_Boyz, I don't know if this is too late to say. Why do you self-harm? What made you do it the first time.

I think seeing a counciller is a great step, well done for having the courage. Something that I've lacked.

You said something which kinda worried me abit about that you don't regret your cuts now but probably later on in life you will.

I've cut myself and though Ive only got few faded scars and one bad one on my arms My hips are a mess from them.

I am not proud of what Ive done. I know that cutting isnt the answer.

I dont think you can stop until you find out why your doing it.

Sorry if im a contradiction.

Lolliee


i think your right, i been selfharming for a while i started of with just scratching and stuff and i stoped. after the attack i started to cut and eversince then life for me has gone down hill for me.

i think your right in some sence. i know why i do it. but im not ready to stop yet. i think i would fall apart if i couldnt do it. i will give it time and i think i will stop.

[littlemissy]

*hugs rude_boyz* things will get better. they did for me although i still have the urge to cut but somehow i manage to let them pass.

laura x

[Hellfire]

Originally posted by littlemissy
*hugs rude_boyz* things will get better. they did for me although i still have the urge to cut but somehow i manage to let them pass.

laura x


*hugs littlemissy back*

i hope you right. if they dont get better soon i dont think ill be able to go on with it anymore and im afraid ill do something even more stupid than cutting.


im sorry i keep going on about it but i only see my councillor one day aweek and this is the only other way i can get it all out. i am sorry if you find these threads annoying or a load of bullshit and not real.

but balieve me it is very real.


thanks little missy

[Tweety]

Originally posted by Rude_boyz
*hugs littlemissy back*

i hope you right. if they dont get better soon i dont think ill be able to go on with it anymore and im afraid ill do something even more stupid than cutting.


im sorry i keep going on about it but i only see my councillor one day aweek and this is the only other way i can get it all out. i am sorry if you find these threads annoying or a load of bullshit and not real.

but balieve me it is very real.


thanks little missy

You should get a Livejournal if if helps you letting it out. I have a code if you want one.

[Hellfire]

Originally posted by Tweety
You should get a Livejournal if if helps you letting it out. I have a code if you want one.

lol thank you VERY much but i already have one hun.

:) :) it's a lovely offer and i'd love to accept but give it to someone who hasnt got one.

my livejournal is www.livejournal.com/users/Rude_boyz

i havent updated it in a very long time. thanks for reminding me tweety:) -hugs N kiss- thnx

[Tweety]

Originally posted by Rude_boyz
lol thank you VERY much but i already have one hun.

:) :) it's a lovely offer and i'd love to accept but give it to someone who hasnt got one.

my livejournal is www.livejournal.com/users/Rude_boyz

i havent updated it in a very long time. thanks for reminding me tweety:) -hugs N kiss- thnx

Gonna add you to my friends list. Do you know someone who wants a code? As i'm picky who i give them to :p.
Btw i can't actually find where i find my codes to give out atm. Lol its different.

[Hellfire]

Originally posted by Tweety
Gonna add you to my friends list. Do you know someone who wants a code? As i'm picky who i give them to :p.
Btw i can't actually find where i find my codes to give out atm. Lol its different.

yeah i balieve my_name is looking for a live journal code. other than that im only know people off of thesite who want them.

dont worry hun your not the only one who can find out where to get the codes from:(