My Mate

[rachie004]

I'm really worried about my mate..

He seems to have soo many problems in his life and I'm starting to run out of things to say to him to make them seem better..
The main two seem to be a) his mum having a go at hin constantly.. I mean.. not constantly.. but alot.. and its really really harsh the things she says to him and b) he's well and truly besotted with a girl who is just too ... too.. i dunno.. to notice how lovely he is
He always seems to be really down on himself, like he's had everything knocked out of him, its actually really upsetting some of the things he says about himself.. I know he's not happy with his job either cos his boss is a total d*ck

All I want to do is just sit him down for however long it take and hug him and hold his hand and just let him talk for however long it takes..
I just wish there was some way of letting him know how much I care about him..

I'm soo worried about him, He's the loveliest guy and I'm worried that the more he gets down the more its going to affect him and one day he'll just crack and (i hate using this term) "do something stupid"

OK..I'm not sure what I expect from posting this, but I'm just soo worried about him :crying:
ty anyways

[Hellfire]

okay first thing is dont you go breaking down on him. you have to be strong for him. so cheer up try and provide a happy atmosphere around him and take him out somewhere nice.

then when hes happy/feeling better go somewhere quiet and peacful eg a park or somewhere with a nice view and atmosphere and sit down. just start talking asking him what would make him happy in life. them comes the dificult part. if hes still calmed and relaxed and there a good atmosphere ask him if he has ever though about "doing something stupid" and decribe to him how YOU personly feel about him. just try and complement him cheer him up. try and make him feel worth something instead of worthless.

good luck and hope this helps