Being a virgin, good or bad?

[Crispy]

Good:yes: Or Bad:no:

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[blonde__batman]

i said good. im only 17 and im glad im still a virgin, just havent found the right person yet and im not wolling to lose it to some stranger like the majority of my friends have

[Sir Cum]

It all depends on the person -

You could have 2 men both aged 30.

Man A has always been up for a shag, has always been trying to get a shag, and somehow (even the most ugliest person in the world could pull a stunner) hasn't managed too.

Man B is waiting to meet the girl of his dreams and fall in love and get married before he has sex. He has dated but not had any sexual relations at all but isn't frustrated - He knows it will happen eventually.

Now Man A would say being a virgin is shite. Man B would say its good.

[1983]

As someone who ain't a virgin..

I'd say it's boring. Too much hype about waiting for true love. It's sex. Not like, being married. :|

[Char_Baby]

it depends on the individual situation, you cant generalise it

[sar's the lady]

surley its down to the person and wether they're happy with being a virgin or not.

although everyones a virgin at some point in there lifes its just some people rush to lose it and some dont

[~kaz~]

i also think it depends on the person, because perhaps they are just wantin to wait for the right person so that is why they are stilll a virgin, its not something you should rush into really.

[Docter Lurve]

"Some people cherish there "V" plates and only give them away in a package deal with their heart, and others see it as hinderence- and what to lose them as soon as they hit puberty- whether to person, animal or pie"! Docter Lurve 2003

[VinylVicky]

It didnt bother me being one and it doesnt bother me not being one. I lost it at a very young age but it wasnt cos I wanted to get rid of it, it was because that person, at the time was very special to me.

[Skateside]

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Oh, go on,
guess what I put :)

[Instie]

Personally, I do prefer virgins, I don't know why, I guess its the innocence of it all, like they havnt been violated, lol.

To be honest, I don't think it really matters, if you really love someone, and they love you, you shouldnt have any problems being virgins or not. :)

[David Grohl]

sure all guys like to think all girls are virgins until they meet them, it makes them feel macho when they bust her open by being the first. i wasnt really that bothered about losing it or not, it wasnt a big deal. it happened and for that night it was goood :naughty:

i wouldnt look down on anyone for being a virgin, we may take the micky out of the lads who are but we're only taking the piss.

[VinylVicky]

Originally posted by Ilson-Youth
What..

You.. you mean, your not? your not a virgin Vicky?

:( Sorry hun :( I was waiting for you but you chose some other bint :(

:p

[lucifer devil]

You can't answer that question :rolleyes:

From a virgins point of view...umm..yeh, still can't answer it.

I'm only this way 'cause I've never had a proper boyfriend and I don't fancy losing it in a drunken fumble.

Don't get me wrong, I've certainly had offers..but no, not yet.

[I_eat_kids]

I can't really say if it's good or bad.
I'm 15 and I lost my virginity when very drunk to a guy I barely knew, and after I really wished i was still a virgin.
The only person I've slept with after that was my boyfriend I'd been seeing for 5 month beforehand and felt I had soemthing really special with. That was a really possitive experience because we had such a great bond and I totally trusted him.
So sex's really added soemthing to my relationship, I just wish I'd lost it at a better time.
:)