Sex is dirty?

[ShyBoy]

As in unclean + nasty... hmmm. This is how I think; that casual sex and stuff or 'fucking' as it were is dirty and nasty and like :no:

Although making love is ok

Your thoughts on my thoughts? :confused:

[sar's the lady]

nope i dont think its dirty at all its a natural part of life.

yes sex in a relationship is better but casual sex is anything but dirty, not everyone wants a relationship.

how old are you shy boy? im sure your time will come when you wanna have a bit of fun its just a stage most people go through.

[*MadinThenuT*]

Well if everyone thought sex was dirty etc etc, where would the world be?

[Sir Cum]

Actually Sars - Its natural for humans to have sex for the purpose of creating new life. And in that sense it isn't dirty. But as a race we have found ways of controlling birth and using sex for our own personal pleasure and gain. And in that sense it is dirty. But I dont mind as dirty = :naughty:

[g_angel]

Shyboy - aren't you still a virgin?

Basically, when you get to have a crack (excuse the pun), I reckon your opinions will change...

I do seem to recall something recently where you were whinging that your girlfriend (ex) didn't want to progress onto that deep a physical side of your relationship until she was 19... Bit of a change of heart from you here matey!!

:eek2:

[VinylVicky]

Dirty doesnt necessarily mean bad

[NinjaMaster]

Originally posted by VinylVicky
Dirty doesnt necessarily mean bad

:thumb:

[sar's the lady]

Originally posted by Sir Cum
Actually Sars - Its natural for humans to have sex for the purpose of creating new life. And in that sense it isn't dirty. But as a race we have found ways of controlling birth and using sex for our own personal pleasure and gain. And in that sense it is dirty. But I dont mind as dirty = :naughty:

yep thats what i meant you just put it better :)

[sar's the lady]

Originally posted by ~*STRESSED*~

i also think people who sleep with every guy they can is dirty. I know somebody who is 17 who has slept with 15 guys and I personally think that is disgraceful.
.

what about if it was a bloke who was 17 and slept with 15 girls would you still think its disgraceful?

and if its making this girl happy, who are you to interfere

sorry its just this whole double standards thing really gets to me it seems ok for men to sleep around but woman cant, why is there so much focus nowadays on girls and how many partners they've had it dosent change the person inside.
:rolleyes:

[Sir Cum]

Sars of course its ok. I've said it before and i'll say it again - The girl would have been penetrated by 15 people. The man has Penetrated 15 people. They are inside her, he is inside them. Its a very sexist way of looking at it I agree - But quite frankly - Its true!

Its like - I wouldn't find it dirty to put a banana up someones arse but I sure would if they put it up mine.

And double standards? The day girls pay their way and don't expect men to be gentlemen is the day studs lose their right to label girls as filthy sluts.

[VinylVicky]

Originally posted by Sir Cum

And double standards? The day girls pay their way and don't expect men to be gentlemen is the day studs lose their right to label girls as filthy sluts.
sweety you cant look at everything so generally, ya cant i tell ya! everyones different and im damn sure i pay my way, but it nice to be treated, but I do it back too. Not everyones like me, but not everyones not like me etc!
Sir cum, have you been cheated on before?

[Sir Cum]

No but I do like to stir up emotional mass debates.

In all seriousness I do know girls pay their own way. My missus does. BUT I LIKE to pay for her and treat her so thats what I do most of the time.

[g_angel]

Shyboy - here is something for you to read... I just happened to follow one of Ninjamasters links about him losing his verginity in aother thread and this was sitting right there:

yea i dont know. cos to me, sex can be sex, fun and fantastic, and it can be something fun and special, without the deepest heart throbbing feelings in the world. say for example. and this is only an example. you had a good friend of the opposite sex, now wouldnt it be better to lose it to them than some stranger, and afterall its fun and you do have thirsts lol, rather than waiting for that special person, which could be 15 years down the line....

That was posted by you not so long back... Here is the link:

Change of thoughts... (http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=44373&perpage=15&highlight=france&pagenumber=2)

Just wondering where such a change of heart has come from, mate?! :confused:

[Mr_Wobble]

Sex is dirty? Only when you're doing it right! :naughty:

Mr_Wobble ;)

[Skateside]

Originally posted by TheShyBoyInTheCorner
As in unclean + nasty... hmmm. This is how I think; that casual sex and stuff or 'fucking' as it were is dirty and nasty and like :no:

Although making love is ok

Your thoughts on my thoughts? :confused:
I'll agree with you that 'fucking' is just dirty. It would make me feel dirty to know I'd done that to someone. Also, if I'm just in and out, job done, go home, that would make me feel dirty too.

Sex without love is just... painful

[dIScO DiVA]

I've had two serious realtionships and yes the sex was fantastic, sometimes we made love, sometimes we had raw, hard, dirty sex. Sex in relationships is not always gentle and tender lovemaking, it would get boring. Variety id the spice of life! And i sure as hell want to try as much as i can

I've also had one night stands and sex friends, it doesn't make me feel unclean or dirty. I can be whoever i want to be, be domineered, play the dominatrix etc etc

As long as safe sex is practiced then there is no reason to feel dirty as long as you are comfortable with yourself!

[DaisyChainThing]

Originally posted by Skateside
I'll agree with you that 'fucking' is just dirty. It would make me feel dirty to know I'd done that to someone. Also, if I'm just in and out, job done, go home, that would make me feel dirty too.

Sex without love is just... painful

Fucking isn't just with random, casual things. :p Like dIScO DiVA said, sex in relationships isn't just lovey 'cause it'd get boring. Sometimes you just wanna be fucked or fuck them or whatever, hardly dirty. :p Next being horny will be dirty too. :p

And even if you don't love them, so what? :| Sex is fun, fucking is fun. It's not all meant to be about love or babies or whatever. Sometimes you just want it to be about fucking them or them fucking you, having them right there and then because they're so sexy or turn you on so much or 'cause you're so fucking horny or whatever. It's good :( :p I don't think it's dirty in some kind of morally wrong way or something.

Maybe sex with someone you love who doesn't love you would be kinda hurtful, or sex with someone when all you want is someone to love. Blah de blah.

Feeling dirty in some ways is kinda good actually. :p Plus being called stuff like a dirty/horny/kinky/etc little bitch/etc turns me on for some reason. Mmmm.

[HunnyPot]

Originally posted by sar's the lady
what about if it was a bloke who was 17 and slept with 15 girls would you still think its disgraceful?


If you want my opinion, or even if you don't, I thinks its fucking pathetic and disgusting whether it's a man or a woman. Just my two cents :)

[BumbleBee]

There is nothing disgusting about sex (unless it is being bought or non consensual)

Also, two people who are very much in love can have "dirty" sex as daisychainthing pointed out. Sometimes you just want a good seeing too. Who says that people in relationships should always have boring sex? :p

Also, two strangers can have sex that isn't classed as "dirty".

[VinylVicky]

Originally posted by BumbleBee
There is nothing disgusting about sex (unless it is being bought or non consensual)

Also, two people who are very much in love can have "dirty" sex as daisychainthing pointed out. Sometimes you just want a good seeing too. Who says that people in relationships should always have boring sex? :p

Also, two strangers can have sex that isn't classed as "dirty".
Thats how I see it.

[Clementine]

I think it could well be classed as dirty but hey im a dirty lad, so if it's dirty then im dirty and i love it!!! Me and my gf either make love or just fuck each others brains out, depends on either how long its been since the last time and what mood we are in!!! But dirty is definately GOOD!:naughty:

[zizo14]

No sex is not dirty because we are here becasue of sex ,our parent had sexual intercourse ,our dad`s imprregnated our mom`s so we were born .We only hear the story of Jesus who his mother was impregnated by Holy Spirit.WE ARE NOT LIKE HIM WE MUST LOVE SEX AND DO IT

[*TiNK*]

Originally posted by zizo14
WE ARE NOT LIKE HIM WE MUST LOVE SEX AND DO IT

:yes: !!!!!!!!!