Please help.

[Ms Mature]

I wasn't sure to post this in health, or here.....so i chose here.

About 2 months ago i done stuff with this bloke, didn't have sex though. He came by my vage though, and did touch me, don't think he touched himself first though (not 100% sure). I was late on my period. Now, i'm a 8 days early on my period, i came on today, but it's not normal, it's very VERY light, doesn't look like proper blood, and it only on my panty liner (but not a discharge), nothing else comes out when i wipe after the loo (soz for detail :p), and i'm NEVER early, EVER. I've had my period for 5-6 yrs, and not once have i been early. I 'played' last night, and got tummy ache after, which happens most of the time before my period. I can't be pregnant can i?

[dIScO DiVA]

If you didn't have actual intercourse with your partner. Then you cannot be pregant. My period changes all the time. If it will make you feel better and give you peace of mind go see your doctor and have a health screening whilst your there. ;)

[Ms Mature]

I thought it could get in though, if u got touched or something.

[VinylVicky]

Originally posted by dIScO DiVA
If you didn't have actual intercourse with your partner. Then you cannot be pregant. My period changes all the time. If it will make you feel better and give you peace of mind go see your doctor and have a health screening whilst your there. ;)
you can get pregnant if they touch themsleves and have semen on them :yes:

chances are you wont be pregnant love, but do get oyurself to the docters or gum clinic and tell them everything you told us, just to be on the safe side :D
let us know ow you get on.

[Ms Mature]

would just a normal pregnancy kit do the trick?

[Ms Mature]

Since i posted yesterday there's been no more blood, i'm not on my period, and it didn't look like blood yesterday really, but it was. Do you think i should still do a test? Ignore my thinking/worrying, but from what i've had and done, should i take one?

[ClaireBear]

Hiya Ms Mature,
Hope you're OK. Vinyl Vicky is right, chances are you won't be pregnant but there is a chance - albeit extremely small - that you could get pregnant in this way. Read this feature (http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/other_sex_issues/sex_myths.html) to find out more.

Although you can buy a pregnancy test you can also contact your GP or either of these organisations for a pregnancy test:

Brook Advisory Centres
Advice, counselling and medical help around contraception, pregnancy, abortion and sexual health.
Telephone: 0800 0185023

Family Planning Association
Information service on family planning and all aspects of sexual health.
Helpline: 0845 3101334

Good luck and don't panic,
CB

[Ms Mature]

Thanks a lot :)

[byny]

Originally posted by dIScO DiVA
If you didn't have actual intercourse with your partner. Then you cannot be pregant. My period changes all the time. If it will make you feel better and give you peace of mind go see your doctor and have a health screening whilst your there. ;)

If anything like semen was deposited inside your vagina during foreplay then it is entirely possible you could get pregnant. Get a test..Sounds like you are having a period but they are very light so its best to make sure!

[Eul Grepus]

Originally posted by dIScO DiVA
If you didn't have actual intercourse with your partner. Then you cannot be pregant. My period changes all the time. If it will make you feel better and give you peace of mind go see your doctor and have a health screening whilst your there. ;)


WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG and just in case WRONG!!!

You can get pregnant without intercourse. But i do agree with the rest of what you said, go see a doc and get yourself checked out. If you don't fancy that, at least do a home pregnancy test just be on the safe side.

[SuzyCreamcheese]

dont want to alarm you, but when you get pregnant, you can have whats known as implantation bleeding, which is like a very light period (although since it was 2months ago that you fooled around it would be a bit late to have this) and also the tummy ache after an orgasm is one of the first things that made me think i might be pregnant (and i was) Id certainly do a test if I were you.

[Shogun]

your probably not pregant, just get a test to be on the safe side.

that got me worried there vicky what you said , i was playing around a girl at the weekend and was naked and touching myself and her but didn't have sex...

you can get pregnant if they touch themsleves and have semen on them

[Luce]

You can get pregnant without having sex if you are touched with sperm on their hands; I am always paranoid about this, and my parents would go absolutely skitz if i became pregnant at my age (17).What are your parents' opinions on it? How old are you? Do a home pregnancy test first; try not to worry about it all the time (i know that sounds easy to say) as being anxious could make your period lighter.

[katchika]

I hope everything is ok, sometimes if you are worried that can affect your period.

Can I just say that there is a lot of confusion over this issue which makes it harder for people.

When I was 15 a similar thing happened to me, so I did what I thought was a sensible thing by going to the Brook centre. The woman there was very patronising and told me "if he didn't come inside you then there's no chance that you're pregnant" which made me feel stupid, put me off going there again and isn't even correct information.

People hear a lot of conflicting information!

[Ms Mature]

I'm 16, 17 next month. My parents would go ape!!!
I'm def not on my period, as it was a tiny bit of blood yesterday, that didn't even look like blood. I wasn't worried at all until yesterday, cos i got my period eventually last time. My periods r heavy, i've had to go to the doctors about them, so there's no chance of me being very light.....as there's no blood now anyway.
I have to wait for my ex to get his car done, then we'll go and get a test. I'm sure i'm not pregnant, but i can't help worrying still.

Thanx for everyone's advice.

[Mr_Wobble]

Not wanting to add to your paranoia and panic, but I'm sure I've heard that it's possbile to have spotting while in the first few weeks of pregnancy. Now, I hope that I'm wrong, and misinformed, because that would be one less worry off your mind, but I'm certain I've heard that somewhere? Anybody else heard that before? I suppose some searching on a few health sites would soon bring up an answer.
So, I'm going to just have to give the advice that everybody else is giving, and say get a pregnancy test just to be on the safe side.

Mr_Wobble ;)