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[badabing]

Listen to what Morrocon Roll is saying. It does make people think when they come on to the health boards and all they see in the 'topic author' area is
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You obviously havent sorted any of your problems out. We're all here to help you help yourself - not wave a wand and make life perfect. Listen to Mr. Roll, he's like the grandad everyone should have had (minus the sex drugs and rock and roll... and prison cells). Good luck, but a word of advice - people will stop replying if they dont think you're taking any notice of their answers; they'll start to think its just for attention.

[spanner]

Nice one, my dear - keep taking those small steps and it will make a huge difference. And keep coming here to talk.
:)

[morrocan roll]

was it muatsi tong ...can't bloody spell his name ...who said ...every great march starts with the first step. something like that.
each little step you take ...takes you forward. in my opinion you have taken many steps forward by asking for help here. remember though ...all of us when struggling uphill ocassionaly come to a stop ...cos we need a rest or to take our bearings. sometimes we take one step forward and three backward ...which can be a real pain in the arse but thats what makes us human. keep taking those steps ...and theres plenty of people here to give you that helping hand ...or even a shove sometimes.

[SuzyCreamcheese]

You might find you feel a whole lot better if you actually say what it is thats actually wrong. I know ive said a few things on here that I havent told people in real life, and its actually very liberating and cathartic. Nobody knows who you are on here, its completely anonymous so its an ideal place to get things off your chest, as youve already found.

[BeckyBoo]

Rainbow's idea about writing what is the problem could help. We dont know you, we know nothing about you apart from your having a right shitty time at the moment.
People may be able to help you, who knows? it could help you by just writing stuff here and getting it out of your system.

You could always delete the stuff once you have got any help or advice. Its your call to be honest, you do what you feel is right for you.

But keep coming here if we can help. You may feel like people are having a go at you at times but its because they want you to get help and to get that help its you who has to go and get it.

As you know a few people have been in similar situations to yourself so if anyone has PM you and they know how you feel then keep talking to them :)