What do you girls do when a guy....

[Bri-namite]

If a guy came and started chatting to you in a pub/club, and he offered to buy you a drink, but you weren't interested in him what would you do?

In my opinion, if you take the drink and walk away, you're a bit slutty, and I'd probably tell you so if I was the bloke :yes:

[candy]

i'd probably refuse the drink, but end up talking to him cos i'm too soft to tell him i'm not interested. :rolleyes:

[HunnyPot]

Originally posted by BritJames
Sorry Bri, I had to reply as it's happened to me when I first went to live in Belgium

Just in a bar when the barman passed me a beer (like half pint as that's the general standard beer in belgium) and pointed to the guy at the end of the bar.

I was completely drunk - after being there a couple of hours on my own, and went to speak to the guy - just chatted about life n stuff (kinda hard when I don't fully speak Flemish) but aye, he was one of the first guys I knew in Belgium and I still chat to him every so often now

ooh yeh - and nowt happened - am not that way inclined - and nor was he - he just figured I was new in town :)

:( I was getting excited there.

[HunnyPot]

Originally posted by BritJames
Sorry :eek2:

You should be. How rude.

:p

[Faith]

If I wasn't at all interested then I'd say no thankyou. If he was fit though obviously I'd accept ;)

[KoolCat]

i would tell the bloke that i was already taken, and if he still insisted on buying me a drink, then i wouldn't stop him!

[HunnyPot]

I'd accept the drink and get chatting to the guy. I could end up liking him.

[pink_panther]

I'd turn down the drink but I wouldn't say "I'm not interested" I'd be more kind and say summit like "I have a boyfriend" (because I do) or "...errmmm....nah it's ok"

Lol. I'm not very good at answering this...I get drinks brought for me for a start!

[Joey Potter]

Originally posted by pink_panther
I'd turn down the drink but I wouldn't say "I'm not interested" I'd be more kind and say summit like "I have a boyfriend" (because I do)



Same here.

I work in a pub and quite often guys offer to buy drinks, but I usually refuse unless I know them.

I was gullible the other night tho, a guy was in the pub who I do know (his Dad drinks in the pub every night and he quite often comes in if he's not at Uni) We seem to get on quite well anyway, so I was chatting to him throughout the night while I was working, and at the end of the night he asked for my mobile number. Earlier on in the night he'd asked me to sponsor him for some charity thing he's doing, so for some reason I assumed it must have been for that - yes, I know, very thick!! :blush: So I was gonna give him my number, until he said "I was just wondering if you wanted to come out for a drink sometime" - oops! I just politely told him that I wasn't single and he just kinda said "Oh well, was worth a shot!"

[VinylVicky]

Originally posted by BritJames
Sorry Bri, I had to reply as it's happened to me when I first went to live in Belgium

Just in a bar when the barman passed me a beer (like half pint as that's the general standard beer in belgium) and pointed to the guy at the end of the bar.

I was completely drunk - after being there a couple of hours on my own, and went to speak to the guy - just chatted about life n stuff (kinda hard when I don't fully speak Flemish) but aye, he was one of the first guys I knew in Belgium and I still chat to him every so often now

ooh yeh - and nowt happened - am not that way inclined - and nor was he - he just figured I was new in town :)

Different cultures, innit? :D

[pinkstar]

I don't really see how you could say accepting the drink then walking away is slutty :confused: . Rude maybe, but not slutty.

When I first started going out all the time and I was single I'm pretty sure I did take drinks from guys I wasn't interested in which was mean but I'd always have a wee chat with them, not just walk off and leave them standing there. Sometimes they turned out to be nice.

Now I'd just politely say not thanks, have a chat to them if they seemed nice, then go back to my friends or whoever I was with :)

[BumbleBee]

I would take the drink and have a chat with him.

I would look around to see where his mates were hiding, or perhaps check to see where he had left his dog...... :(

[sxy bunny grl]

It would depend on my night and how many drinks id already had, but if i was going to take the drink id remeber to make sure he doesnt put anything init:thumb:

OMG i cant believe corrie poor Roy:crazyeyes

[jellygirl]

I'd accept the drink and walk away why pass up an offer of a free drink and it dont make you a slut cos you're walking away, you're not sleeping with the man. Its kinda more slutty to have the drink then go and sleep with the man.

[D'OHnut]

Originally posted by jellygirl
I'd accept the drink and walk away why

...which is why you should never buy a woman a drink until you have began chatting to her! That way, you know she's interested in you (if she wasn't, why else would she be chatting to you?) and if she then walks away (how rude...) you save some money.

[icey]

I dont know about other people but me and my friends have a sort of unwriten rule that you dont buy a girl a drink (unless they're related to you or you're going out with them, mates etc..) so if a guy does offer to buy you (girls) a drink then accept it(make sure you se him buy it though) and give him at least a little bit of time because he probably doesnt know what he's doing and thinks hes in with a chance.

[Fairytale_Girly]

I'd take the drink and have a friendly chat ...

after all, how do u know that you're not interested before you take time to get to know the person a little bit ... that would be kinda shallow I think.

Also if someone's got the guts to offer you a drink that's putting themselves out a bit ... I think if I offered someone a drink I'd like at least a chat - but perhaps that's just me ... I notice that a majority so far would just say "No thanks" according to the poll

[rosi]

i wouldn't take it....i think that's really rude, using guys for their money......

actually having said that a while ago i was with three friends in london and this 30 year old lawyer took us to this members bar in soho and bought us wine,....and another guy there bought me champagne...but they were loaded anyway, and they had bad intentions so it served them right!

a while ago in newquay this guy wanted to buy me a drink but i politely declined, and he wouldnt let it go, he started hassling me, he really wanted to buy me a damned drink, he wouldnt take no for an answer! i still didnt take it, but that was stupid on his part...he was just asking to waste money as id already shown him i wasnt interested!

anyway, the type of guy i go for wouldnt just ask to buy a random girl a drink....they wouldnt be that superficial!

[littl lambs mum]

prob take the drink but make sure it was new from the bar(remember some men are sick and try to date rape you), and he looked like a clean enough bloke and not dodgy.
would not try to lead him on tho can make things worse
he mite follow you around the whole nite

[littl lambs mum]

Originally posted by icey
I dont know about other people but me and my friends have a sort of unwriten rule that you dont buy a girl a drink (unless they're related to you or you're going out with them, mates etc..) so if a guy does offer to buy you (girls) a drink then accept it(make sure you se him buy it though) and give him at least a little bit of time because he probably doesnt know what he's doing and thinks hes in with a chance.
i def agree with you, you seem prtiity clued up