What can i do

[Sazzy saz]

hi all my friends say that i cant i bf cause i way to out going 4 them i mean i have guy m8s and everything but that doesnt seem to mean anything i havent had a bf in years what can i do

[Ilora-Danon]

And, In English that means what exactly?! :rolleyes:

[Faith]

Originally posted by Sazzy saz
what can i do

Talk properly so people can understand you :eek2:

[Sazzy saz]

it means what am i doing wrong

[Faith]

Originally posted by Sazzy saz
it means what am i doing wrong

I got that bit, i was answering the question :rolleyes: The way you write is kinda hard to read, put a few bits of punctuation in and it'll be far easier to understand.

If you're saying that your problem is being to outgoing for guys, then why don't you just act a bit quieter around blokes? :confused:

[VinylVicky]

Im the same, but it doesnt really bother me that im not with anyone. All you can do is change really, but id never change for anyone. Ask your mates to help you find a bloke or ask your male friends what your doing wrong.

[byny]

Originally posted by Sazzy saz
hi all my friends say that i cant i bf cause i way to out going

EH!!!!!???????????

Read it again...no really...it doesn't make sense.

[lil_minx]

The look for a bloke whos more out going than you :) youll seem quiet in comparrison

[perfect***day]

Originally posted by Sazzy saz
hi all my friends say that i cant i bf cause i way to out going 4 them i mean i have guy m8s and everything but that doesnt seem to mean anything i havent had a bf in years what can i do
Hi. All my friends say that I can't get a boyfriend because I'm way too outgoing for them. I mean, I have male friends and everything but that doesn't seem to help - I haven't had a boyfriend in years. What can I do?



...That better, people?

Whatever you do, you can't change the way you are, so don't. If you have plenty of friends then you're obviously a likeable person so all you've got to do is wait for the right guy to come along. I don't know how old you are, but you seem quite young and at your age boys are easily intimidated; they want girls who look pretty standing next to them and will impress all their mates with their huge boobs, but not girls who have minds of their own. Ok, so I'm generalising, but generalisations do have foundations.

Um I'm rambling a little but basically, don't worry - your time will come! :)

[Olive]

maybe they're put off cause they can't understand what the bejesus you're saying.

[lil_minx]

Originally posted by legal junkie
maybe they're put off cause they can't understand what the bejesus you're saying.

:lol:

[jellygirl]

:lol: i'm sure there are more out going people than you around, just go for them?...

[Miffy]

Originally posted by perfect***day

Whatever you do, you can't change the way you are, so don't.

I agree. It won`t work anyway.

I have a little saying where men are concerned. If they can`t handle all of me then they can`t have any part of me.

[lil_minx]

Originally posted by Miffy
I have a little saying where men are concerned. If they can`t handle all of me then they can`t have any part of me.

:yes: love it! Miffy you are a wise little thing arent you!

[Acrobat]

i agree. you shouldnt have to change for anyone, and if they do try to make you change, or you have to change for them, then it isnt worth it. having a boyfriend isnt everything.

[Miffy]

Originally posted by lil_minx
Miffy you are a wise little thing arent you!

If that`s true then it`s borne of many years of bitter experience.

[lil_minx]

Originally posted by Miffy
If that`s true then it`s borne of many years of bitter experience.

:( well i guess bad experiences only make us stronger!:)

[Miffy]

Originally posted by lil_minx
:( well i guess bad experiences only make us stronger!:)

Only if you allow them to! Some people enjoy wallowing in their misery.

[lil_minx]

I suppose so, must admit i like to wallow sometimes!

[Miffy]

Originally posted by lil_minx
I suppose so, must admit i like to wallow sometimes!

Everyone does once in a while, but some people make a career of it.

[lil_minx]

:yes: