confused:(

[dumbfuck]

i asked this girl out the other day and she told me that she just wants to be friends but she says that she thinks im goodlooking and she really likes my personality, where have i gone wrong? or is she trying to tell me something else?

[KinkyRed]

She's turning you down but trying to soften the blow with compliments.

[dumbfuck]

Originally posted by KinkyRed
She's turning you down but trying to soften the blow with compliments.

i see.........so she didnt mean them then....oh well...........:(:(:(

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[KinkyRed]

Originally posted by dumbfuck
i see.........so she didnt mean them then....oh well...........:(:(:(

I'm not saying she didn't mean it. I'm saying don't get your hopes up

[dumbfuck]

Originally posted by seed
Just because she didn't want to be more than friends, doesn't mean no-one else will :)

its kinda what everyone says if i ask them out:(

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[dumbfuck]

Originally posted by seed
How old are you?

15

[Ilora-Danon]

I know someone in exactly the same position as you..
Every time he asks a girl out, she says the same thing: "I don't think of you like that"
He's a great lad, good looking in a "trendy" sense.. He's caring and funny..but he's just not boyfriend material.
I mean, yeah he's lovely but he's not fanciable, he's almost father or brother like...
I think he gets turned down every time, because he just doesn't send out those kinda signals.. the kind that say "hey I'm lloyd, and I wanna shag you crazy"! He's all nice and friend like.
I think that describes you, in a way? I think you should try and flirt more, say more sexy things and just hint that you fancy them and just generally flirt! You've got the Confidence all you need now is the Flirting...
Does that make sense to you?

Ilora x

[dumbfuck]

Originally posted by Ilora-Danon
thingy

makes perfect sense but saying as i dont flirt that much im shit at it so i just make myself look like a tit

[Ilora-Danon]

Originally posted by dumbfuck
makes perfect sense but saying as i dont flirt that much im shit at it so i just make myself look like a tit
Well, Practice makes perfect ;)

[dumbfuck]

Originally posted by Ilora-Danon
Well, Practice makes perfect ;)

cant practice if i dont know where to start

[Skateside]

Originally posted by dumbfuck
cant practice if i dont know where to start
Just try chatting, without wanting to flirt. It doesn't even matter what you chat about. Trust me, flirting comes naturally, but not if it's forced on

[byny]

She probably does 'like' you - but only as a friend...if the sexual spark isn't there for her there's not much you can do.