just making out ???

[Zombie]

Do you ever just want to make out with someone, but not go 'all the way'? How do you let them know?

[D'OHnut]

Yep, of course! It's all good fun and enjoyable! :D

Normally say 'I'm not in the mood' or 'I'm too tired for full sex' or 'may I pleasure you?' or something.

[BumbleBee]

Yeah, course!

I'd just kick him away!

"Down boy" kinda thing. :p :)

[Protean]

Be direct and honest. Chances are, after a few more minutes making out I'm well in the mood for more anyway! Don't fuck about though, if you don't want to say so.

[1983]

Sit on him.

[D'OHnut]

Why do people call it 'making out'? I like to call it 'pleasuring'.

[Sa-ra-ra-ra]

I'm really clear about it. I'm just like, 'yeah, this is for fun, but i'm not going to sleep with you.' And say it before it starts getting all hot and heavy - that way you're more likely to stick to it!

[Meryn]

Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
Why do people call it 'making out'? I like to call it 'pleasuring'.

Because she's American or speaks American English?

Pleasuring..well that's descriptive and accurate I s'pose, but I'd feel a bit of a prat asking to 'pleasure' someone. Sounds too formal somehow. But then most of the words describing cuddling and foreplay kinda stuff sound round. Better just to do it I think ;)

[Lacy]

Originally posted by Meryn


Pleasuring..well that's descriptive and accurate I s'pose, but I'd feel a bit of a prat asking to 'pleasure' someone. Sounds too formal somehow. But then most of the words describing cuddling and foreplay kinda stuff sound round. Better just to do it I think ;)

:yes:

You dont ask if you can "pleasure" someone, thats just odd. It sounds like your talking to ya boss!

[Me_and]

Originally posted by LacyMay
You dont ask if you can "pleasure" someone, thats just odd. It sounds like your talking to ya boss! Maybe Mobily's trying to tell us about his relationship...

[1983]

It's called kissing, not pleasuring, cause you aren't actually pleasuring down below to make you go all sodden, and it's not making out..cause, well, it is, if you're American, or Austrailian, or..Canadian. I dunno :\

[D'OHnut]

You don't literally say 'may I pleasure you?' !!!!!!! I just meant I use 'pleasuring' as an alternative to 'making out' and I like it - for me, it refers to everything beyond kissing but less than penetration. So that's sucking, licking, rubbing etc - i.e. things that pleasure you!

[1983]

Ohhh, ok.

[*TiNK*]

Originally posted by BumbleBee
Yeah, course!

I'd just kick him away!

"Down boy" kinda thing. :p :)

lol il try that one! :p

[solid_L]

Originally posted by Protean
Be direct and honest. Chances are, after a few more minutes making out I'm well in the mood for more anyway! Don't fuck about though, if you don't want to say so.

i agree:yes:

[David Grohl]

Originally posted by BumbleBee
Yeah, course!

I'd just kick him away!

"Down boy" kinda thing. :p :)

you cant do that to the poor lad thats cruelty :p

[Me_and]

Originally posted by David Grohl
you cant do that to the poor lad thats cruelty :p Not if that's the kinda thing the lad likes...

[jacaranda]

I can imagine that happening yes