How did you meet your partner and what did they do to catch you?

[DG]

This one is espacially but not exclusively for the girls .. what did your partner or past partners do to catch you?

Was is a cheesy chat up line (and if so what was it?)

Did they ask you out and you turned then down 20 times before saying yes?

what was it?

[perfect***day]

Mine are all fairly boring but I'll post anyway... I've only really had 3 proper relationships:

Number 1 - only 14yrs old! My friend (girl) and his friend (guy) were going out and he used to tag along with his friend to see me when we all went out as a group. Then he rang his friend who rang my friend who rang me to ask me if I'd go out with him... then I told her yes, so she rang her boyfriend who rang his friend and told him yes... and we went out the next friday :D Oh, to be fourteen again!! :lol:

Number 2 - pulled at a party and I asked him out a few days later :rolleyes:

Number 3 - we were friends (not close, but friends all the same) for a while until last summer, when we developed stronger feelings for each other. He flirted a lot with me and wanted to see me every day of the summer, and vice versa... and eventually we kissed :) and got together. And still are.

[molo]

your threads are gettin progressively worse, almost as bad as my spelling :lol:

i met my girl through school/ex girlfriend's sister mate and yes i did turn her down loads cus i was a DAMN FOOL!

there wasn't really a method she adopted other than not giving up, and waitin patiently while i stupidly fucked bout with other silly girls, cus at first i was unsure bout our ages but.....

soooo glad i saw past the age gap! she's 'du best' :D

[StarryEyes]

Originally posted by perfect***day
we were friends (not close, but friends all the same) for a while until last summer, when we developed stronger feelings for each other. He flirted a lot with me and wanted to see me every day of the summer, and vice versa... and eventually we kissed :) and got together. And still are.

Ditto :)

[LadyT]

Originally posted by molo
your threads are gettin progressively worse, almost as bad as my spelling :lol:

i met my girl through school/ex girlfriend's sister mate and yes i did turn her down loads cus i was a DAMN FOOL!

there wasn't really a method she adopted other than not giving up, and waitin patiently while i stupidly fucked bout with other silly girls, cus at first i was unsure bout our ages but.....

soooo glad i saw past the age gap! she's 'du best' :D

The age gap? Why, what is it?

[lil_minx]

welll...... :blush: met mine on faceparty :blush: he was into drugs, i needed a dealer, got chatting arranged to meet up to sort me out with some of the green stuff, and we got on really well, felt like i had known him for years and years, so that night he asked if he could take me out..to which i said yes, was the usual dinner/movie scenario...

ended up kissing and hugging all night

then a couple of days later he came to see me, and asked me out... he said..

him do you wanna see me again?
me yup
him how about a little more reguarly
me yup
him would you like to go out with me?
me course...

enter big kiss

i never did get the little him-dealer me-punter thing sorted out, he just gave me the drugs for free after that hehe

the end :D

[BumbleBee]

Lived next door to him my whole life.

We were mates until aged 11 when we went to different secondary schools and then again aged about 14.

Started dating in 1999 and still together.

Got together through a mutual friend who could see we liked each other but both of us were too scared to ask the other out.

[sexyassmoma]

he was seein my best mate, then saw me and went after me and had been trying ever since, we are now together

[*hellie*]

The boyfriends I had between the ages of 13-15 I mainly met at school or through friends but they were only relationships that lasted about a month max!

My first "proper" relationship was when I was 15, nearly 16 and he was best mates with my previous ex. We were together for 6 months though.

My next "proper" relationship was a couple of months after that, when I was 16. I met the guy in a bar in town and we were together for a year.

Since the guy I was with for a year I've gone back to the short-term, not at all serious type relationships and I met most of them in bars too.

My new bloke, who I've only been with for about a week at the moment, I met a couple of times before as he went to school with a girl I used to work with. He asked me out for a drink once before but I turned him down, as even though I thought he was good looking he'd never really spoken to me much so I didn't feel very sure about the whole thing. He then asked me out for a drink again a couple of weeks later and I thought "what the hell" and went out for one with him. Very glad I did now! :D

[byny]

I met my boyfriend through a friend for the first time (in 1994) and thought he was an uncouth beer monster and so I was quite Hoity-toity with him and ignored him. Then a couple of months later I met him on Xmas eve and had a kiss (Very innocent and then my friend (a different one) not realising we'd kissed made us kiss again (I later found out that my boyfriend had said to his mate 'they look like a right pair bet we can snog them).

Anyway - I didn't see him for ages and spent new years eve in a pub in Tenby getting loads of snogs then spent the night with an old flame (No sex) (my friend got pregnant with his twin brother that night and now they are married).

Then in about Feb (1995) I met my now boyfriend again and ended up chatting for ages then went back to his house where 6 of us all slept in his bed and we snogged but I kept my clothes on. After that we started going out. Then in April I moved to London and we had a long distance relationship with no sex until that May 1996 when we slept together for the first time. And we are still together now!

[TempleOfDreams]

My current boyfriend, I met in our local club... after a few bevies ;), I thought he looked really cute and he'd already winked at me, and i went over, started dancing a bit and I just said 'So do I get a kiss then?!' Got together a week later... and it's been over 4 months now :D Glad to say it wasn't my beer goggles attracting me to him - he really is gorgeous :D A Marti Pellow (of Wet Wet Wet fame) looky-likey! :D Heheheeee - btw, I did get my kiss :p

Edited to add a bit on I missed!!

[witch-kitten]

my 1st feller, was when i was 16, i was on holiday at the lakes and he walked passed me saying "look out for the holes" and i got his number, he lived aay from me, and only saw him for 3mts.

2nd, met in 6th form at 17, saw him for a year and a half. He ment a lot to me.

current, i met in a wood,lol longer story then ever! and got to know him when i was with my ex, and a few mts down the line after my ex n i ended, things kinda happend , and it was magic. still with him now, and want to be for the rest of my life- he means everything to me- you know who u r hunny......


kitten xxx

(sorry-went ona bit didnt i);)

[Stinger]

1st G/f i met through school, i was 14 i liked her and a mate ran to tell her, she told me if i asked her out she'd say yes, i went to see her but couldn't say anything (i was nervous and shy) but i found out in maths that we were seeing each other, i was soo happy, i saw her for about a year before she broke it off

2nd i met through friends at a new years eve party, saw her for about 4 months before i realised she was an obsessive physco, finished her after another couple of months of ignoring her

3rd i met through her ex(as well as other mates) we became close friends while they were together, then when they split we became closer, and i found out she had feelings for me as well, eventually we got together, and i'll never forget the night it happened, it was amazing!!!!

I love her and hope were together for a long time

[molo]

Originally posted by LadyT
The age gap? Why, what is it?

she's 15 and i'm 17

but it sounds worse when i say year ten and year thirteen

but its not bad at all, jus i was being stupid!

[Mrmint666]

yeah dude, fuk the age diffrence, i mean same wiv me i was year 11 and she was year 9 when my and my ex first started dating, then she became year 10 and me year 12. makes no diffrence shouldnt matter wat anyone else thinks

(im aware that all my typing was in slag, but im lazy and pissed off tonight so sew me :P)

[CHEEKy]

At the age of 13 I went on a family holiday to China.(I'm chinese by the way) So went to visit family and there is this guy who was 16 who is very closely involved with our family and we just got on really well.Us getting on goes well back to when I visited when I was 8.Anyways,13 we got on and one day I was just taking the mick and stuck my tongue as you do and I kept doing it and eventually he went to bite it and he actually caught it.It sounds strange I know but then we had tongue biting sessions and eventually he made the move to properly kiss me and then we continued to and were really close.I was there for 3mths and we were officially together for 2.Then we were upset like you do when someone has to go away.We tried to continue it but it isn't the same over the phone.But we are still in contact.

Then at 14 I went into a serious relationship.This happened at Christmas time 99.The previous year his best mate and my sort of best mate(I don't really like the term 'best mate') fancied each other and got together at the school christmas disco.But that year also he also fancied my mate but obviously his mate got her and he got with another mate of mine instead.They all split.So back to Christmas 99.I found out that he fancied me ever since he lost out on getting my mate and then that Christmas I went out to the clubs and he knew I was going so he went which is really sweet cos he wasn't the club person.He was more rock band than trashy pop etc.But we got together there.I thought i'll go with him just for the sake of Christmas and then did alot more of it for 2 and a half years.His best mate got togther with my mate again and then split again.Then they got together again a third time but she is now with another but unfortuantely he is now in prison.

Present.I am now 18.I got together with him when I was 17.Been togther 7mths now.I work with his cousin and it was his birthday and invited me out for his birthday.His cousins and mates were going too.We all went out clubbing.I saw him,didn't think much.He saw me thought I was 23 and he then thought he had no chance.(He was 19,now 20)But then we got talking and I said I was 17 thats when he thought he had a chance then.I didn't speak much to him cos I'm not the sort to just speak especially when I thought he was with the girl that was also with us,but she turned out to be another cousin's girlfriend but was trying to hit on him.Anyways,he came to sit with me and grease song come on and we both started singing together to it.That was the first ice breaker.I love to dance and soon I was on the dancefloor and he joined and I thought he was just being friendly but then he danced closer to me.......and closer and soon his hads were round my waist and he went in to kiss me.I thought it was gonna be the night but we then exchanged numbers and then that week he called me every night for a couple of hours at least and we just got on so well and then went on date that weekend and have been together ever since.

I love memories.