how..?

[Naz]

how do you make it up with someone after you've had an argument? A really awful argument, where you said things which you shouldn't have? i don't just mean in a romantic sense...cos i've just said such evil things to my cousin who i used to be extremely close to...god he pissed me off though. i txted him and said sorry and that i didn't expect him to forgive me, jus be civil to me.

so how have you lot made it up with someone who meant a lot to you (but you aren't too sure cares very much for you anymore)?

thanx

[Kermit]

Allow time for tempers to cool, and then suitably grovel.

[Simba T Lion]

let time pass and the mind forget some of the real nasty things then just talk about it.

[jacaranda]

let time pass and say sorry if they are a so called friend

[sillystring]

yeh i agree with the others...wait for the tempers to cool off for a sensible amount of time. but i suggest talking to the person in question face to face and not just texting...it shows that you care about their feelings enough to face them and want to sort it out. tell them that you're upset about the way you spoke to them and what you said. it's no good just thinking it...they can't mind-read. hope this helps,
The Silly String

[BeckyBoo]

As already said give it time, let tempers cool down.

You could try phoning in a few weeks and just say can we sort it?
Explain things were said which shouldnt have been, but hopefully we can try to sort our differences out.

Thats what ive done in the past, even if it was the other person concerned who was the bitch to me. Ive said lets try to sort our differences out, especially when the way they spoke to me was not normal for them. Something must have happened for them to act that way with me and when I got to the bottom of the disagreement im on about it tuns out my mate had serious family trouble and she lashed out at me. Which I forgive her for :)