What have I done wrong?

[ShyBoy]

Today Laura was so nasty to me. To start the day she was just being bitchy to me, then she just blanked me for the rest of the day. I don't know what I did wrong. And I've just found out that she's planning on making up an imaginary boyfriend to hurt me. I don't have a clue what I did wrong she is just being nasty to me and I have no clue why.

Can someone explain to me why one of my friends would set out to hurt me so badly? I just want to be friends with her now and I have a feeling shes just gonna make me feel worse because. Gah I have no idea! I was 100% honest with her then she led me on. Then now she's setting out to hurt me. And I want to be her friend I just need to work out a way to get her to be friendly again. It's kinda sad because she's not a spiteful person or a pathetic person like this so why is she doing this I feel quite sick now.

[SuzyCreamcheese]

because shes a BITCH, honestly shyboy, I always thought she sounded like a right cow.

[molo]

what the same way your gonna lead on adele by kissing her when you wern't sure how you felt bout her?

look geez, get over this whora bird

your feeding her power trip with grade A fuel.

[David Grohl]

Originally posted by rainbow brite
because shes a BITCH, honestly shyboy, I always thought she sounded like a right cow.

couldnt agree more!

[ShyBoy]

Originally posted by molo
what the same way your gonna lead on adele by kissing her when you wern't sure how you felt bout her?

look geez, get over this whora bird

your feeding her power trip with grade A fuel.

i am not going to go out with adele, or kiss her. Just to let people know. And she never knew about any of my speculation anyway, so she can't be throwing that back in my face.

Look, I'm over her and I won't be in pain if I can't go out with her - but if I can't be her friend then :(

I still feel sick and trembling - I couldn't sleep. I just want to be friends and to be able to talk and get along but atm I feel so sick :(

[ShyBoy]

Ok I spoke to her on my paperound and I was shocked by her explanation. She says she was hostile because she doesn't know why my friends on the internet (as she put it) hate her even though they've never met her. I've only ever tried to show the good side of her and the bad side is quite bitter. She said she then started blanking me because she was angry at me = I was in one of my sad moods and she said I was pretending it in order to make her feel guilty, so she was angry at me.

Bah I have other things on my plate like my friends blanking me because I'm upset, my schoolwork going downhill, my family giving me grief and on top of that I'm stuck at home for like 99% of the time doing nothing (except going on the internet :rolleyes: ).

So in closing - Laura needs to learn that not everything revolves around her and people do get over things, and the way people feel is something uncontrallable to an extent and you can't blame them for that. Bah methinks I'll have more words with her on monday, or just her friends. What she said to me this morning is like a goldmine of evilness :p

(p.s just kidding about her friends bit)

[Char_Baby]

she was gonna make up an imaginary boyfriend?
how fucking sad bet your glad you broke up when you did!!

[Tweety]

Not sure you should be mates with her if shes just gonna be nasty?!:confused:

[ShyBoy]

Originally posted by Tweety
Not sure you should be mates with her if shes just gonna be nasty?!:confused:

read my other thread hehe. I think the best part of our friendship is unfortunately over. I'm going to remain kinda friends but not best friends and I'll make new friends.

:) Re-orginisation of my life will only be good for me I think.

[perfect***day]

Originally posted by TheShyBoyInTheCorner


:) Re-orginisation of my life will only be good for me I think.
That's the spirit! :) It's all about moving on :D

[ShyBoy]

Originally posted by *Groovaybaby*
As i have said before shes not jsut a bitch shes a idiotic pathetic child who needs to grow up and realise that not everything in life is all fairytale and dreams. I dont know where that came from i think its cos im pissed off at the moment.


The scary thing is you are meant to be the extreme hating side of my conciounce where Laura is concerned but I agree with you totally.

Me knows who is good enough for my friendship *hugs Lollie, Char Baby and all other peeps in sig and then some more people*

:) my friends may only be on the internet but that's better than 'friends' in real life making me :(

:)

[Mr_Wobble]

I've always found that it's hard to remain friends with ex'es. Let it go, let her go, and don't go out of your way to be her friend. Don't blank her either. Be polite when you see her, say "Hi" as you pass her, but don't worry or bother with a conversation unless she wants one.
Be polite, don't rise to her teasing (imaginary boyfriends, etc), and she'll soon get the idea that you're not letting her get to you.

Mr_Wobble ;)

[KinkyBoots]

Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
I've always found that it's hard to remain friends with ex'es. Let it go, let her go, and don't go out of your way to be her friend. Don't blank her either. Be polite when you see her, say "Hi" as you pass her, but don't worry or bother with a conversation unless she wants one.
Be polite, don't rise to her teasing (imaginary boyfriends, etc), and she'll soon get the idea that you're not letting her get to you.

Mr_Wobble ;)

Ditto.

I personaly think she's rather childish and immature and dont see why you bother. But there you go :)