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crescendo
17-04-2003, 01:51 AM
Guys want sex more then girls.

For example, if you were a single guy in a club, and ANY single girl asked if you wanted to have sex (providing she was average looking, or fit, but not a minger), I think every guy would say yes.
But if an average or good looking guy asked a single girl if they wanted to have sex, not many girls will say yes.

I know for a fact that I'd shag 80% of the girls in a club (which excludes the mingers) if they asked me straight up, but why do I always have to make the damn first move!!!!!!!!:mad:

Mr_Wobble
17-04-2003, 03:45 AM
You've made some generalisations, but on the whole I reckon you're right.
However, I think girls want as much sex as guys, it's just they want to act like little miss innocent and don't accept your offer of sex if you're average looking as they don't want to look like a slut in front of their friends.

It's down to the old sterotypes of guys who sleep around are studs, girls who sleep around are sluts.
You've also got to do with the old sterotype that guys are supposed to buy the drinks, do the chatting up, make the girl laugh (how many girls say they like a man that makes them laugh?), and then the old stereotypical convention is that it's the girl who decides if she's interested, if not she bogs off.

Mr_Wobble ;)

bebedawl
17-04-2003, 04:22 AM
I would, depending on how much I'd fancy you, and been flirting with you all night, and if you got me rather randy on the dancefloor;) It has happened, but workmates pulled me away from the gorgeous randy blokey who was fondling me eloquently. Bastardos.

Sir Cum
17-04-2003, 10:30 AM
If a man laid in the street, naked and with an erection you wouldn't have many women come take a ride.

If a women laid in the street, naked and spread - You'd probably have a few blokes fancy slipping it in.

However, girls enjoy and crave sex just as much if not more than men - They just prefer to do so with more regular partners (whether they be loving relationships or casual fuck relationships). I think although some girls can be slutty or enjoy one night stands - More men are likely to act that way.

Lacy
17-04-2003, 10:44 AM
Hehe still as shallow as ever i see!

As has been said i think its more to do with how we're differently perceived if we do summat like that.

Sir Cum
17-04-2003, 11:32 AM
So Lacy are you suggesting girls would sleep around more and slut it up like blokes do if they weren't gonna be labelled as sluts afterward?

(i'll take this opportunity to point out that girls rather than blokes tend to be the ones that label each other as sluts)

Lacy
17-04-2003, 11:48 AM
Originally posted by Sir Cum
So Lacy are you suggesting girls would sleep around more and slut it up like blokes do if they weren't gonna be labelled as sluts afterward?

(i'll take this opportunity to point out that girls rather than blokes tend to be the ones that label each other as sluts)

Well i can only speak for myself but yeah.

If i was single and had no ties with anyone and had the oppurtunity, i would sleep with anyone who tried it on! I like sex and i dont see why i shouldn't take part in something i enjoy!

However it is the slut tag you get that puts me off doing it. Your right girls do label other girls more. You gotta put up with the bitching and stuff so most people just think theres no point if all your gonna get is hassle.

The Philosopher
17-04-2003, 02:16 PM
Call me stupid, but how do more men have one night stands than women? The last I heard, sex required at least two people.

davedavidson
17-04-2003, 02:19 PM
I think that girls prefer "love" to sex whereas men just prefer a good shag. Never the way I have seen it though!

angelbabe
17-04-2003, 02:57 PM
I think with girls they get stick to the emotional side abit more, like expect something to happen with the guy afterwards. It's not always the case but it's like they know their having a one night stand but also expect to carry on seeing the guy afterwards. With guys it seems to be more about sex they wanna go out and have fun rather than have all the relationship and the problems that come with it. So I think that both sexes want it just as much, but perhaps for different reasons. I prefer it in a relationship, whereas guys (no offence here) mature a little later so they wanna carry on being lads for a few more years and have no ties and go out shagging loadsa girls before they settle down, whereas girls tend to like the whole relationships thing and the security that comes with it. It's also like the more girls guys have laid the more matcho they are, whereas the more guys a girl has shagged the more of a slut they are.

This is just generalising though, everyone is different!

VinylVicky
17-04-2003, 06:06 PM
Originally posted by crescendo
Guys want sex more then girls.


generally but not with me :p

BeckyBoo
17-04-2003, 11:40 PM
Speaking for myself only here but Id never just meet someone and have sex. I can survive without it and I would not enjoy it with a stranger so id have to be in a relationship.

I think its wrong that girls are classed as sluts because they have one night stands but lads can go and shag anything in a skirt and its ok :confused:

Everyone to their own i say :)

carlito
18-04-2003, 06:25 PM
Originally posted by The Philosopher
Call me stupid, but how do more men have one night stands than women? The last I heard, sex required at least two people.

'Cos its the same women having sex with all those different men!

eefs
18-04-2003, 08:42 PM
Originally posted by carlito
'Cos its the same women having sex with all those different men!

i was goin to say that! you robbed me joke!:crying: