Trouble for first time

[Imightbewrong00]

Hi there,

last night I almost lost my virginity, with a girl who is also a virgin. We were at someone else house, on the couch, and after a while we decided to try it, but... the stupidiest thing happened: I just couldn't get in. I wasn't in the best position, it was dark and we both have no experience, but DAMMIT! this is sooo stupid! I always tought it would be easy as 1,2,3, but without thinking I'm bigger than the normal, her hole seem pretty small for my dick size. After trying for like 5 minutes, we gave up, laughed at it (oh the joy!) and told each others we would try when we would be alone.

So this is my story. After a good laugh, please add you comments or tips or whatever you want to help me for next time, so I just don't look like a fool two times in a row!

Thanks.

[Mr_Wobble]

Sounds like conditions weren't exactly perfect, and that you were trying to hurry things. Maybe because of that she wasn't as aroused, relaxed, and wet enough for you to easily enter her. Did you do any foreplay, or were you just in a hurry to have sex?

Mr_Wobble ;)

[xapis]

hi,
sex isn't easy the first time, especially when both partners are inexperienced. foreplay is very important to make sure she is lubricated enough (or try some acutal lube).
when i lost my virginity we had the same problem...and we were in a bed! it took a while of perserverance to get it sorted, and we had to have a few laughs and stop quite a few times while trying, but we got there in the end!
It's better to try when you have plenty of time and are comfortable. Don't worry if it doesn't happen straight away, enjoy the experience of trying together!!
good luck!

[Imightbewrong00]

Conditions were far from being ideal, but we had a lot of foreplay, I was fingering her for half an hour before we tried. We were not in a hurry, but it was dark and people where sleeping too near to make any loud noise.

[perfect***day]

It's definitely not as easy as 1-2-3 the first time! She was probably not relaxed enough which was making her too tight for you to enter her. I'm sure you'll be better if you try another time in an easier position (I'm sure 99% of people lose their Vs in missionary position), and if you're properly on your own. Just relax and keep trying... and have fun ;)

[D'OHnut]

I totally agree that the first time is normally very uneventful and thus frustrating.

I remember my first time, during which I too could not enter her, despite trying virtually everything thinkable. But somehow it just happened and everything since has been fine.

I recommend getting her to lay on a bed flat with her slightly apart. Move up onto her and get her to guide your penis to the entrance of her vagina and slowly ease it in. This should help. In addition, ensuring you are in a comfortable environment, such as in a house without anyone else in, should help.

This is easier said than done, but try to relax.

Always remember this all-important phrase: practice makes perfect. :)

[eefs]

Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
I totally agree that the first time is normally very uneventful and thus frustrating.

I remember my first time, during which I too could not enter her, despite trying virtually everything thinkable. But somehow it just happened and everything since has been fine.

I recommend getting her to lay on a bed flat with her slightly apart. Move up onto her and get her to guide your penis to the entrance of her vagina and slowly ease it in. This should help. In addition, ensuring you are in a comfortable environment, such as in a house without anyone else in, should help.

This is easier said than done, but try to relax.

Always remember this all-important phrase: practice makes perfect. :)

you make everything sound so proper. :) :p

[Imightbewrong00]

Thanks for all your answers!

I just can't help but be nervous... don't usually have that kind of problem, but I'm sure something like: "I finally enter her, but come right away" will happen. Gnah!

[big_man_with_a_]

Originally posted by Imightbewrong00
Thanks for all your answers!

I just can't help but be nervous... don't usually have that kind of problem, but I'm sure something like: "I finally enter her, but come right away" will happen. Gnah!

ah but from then on, you can only get better at it... right? ;)