droppin hints

[Tigger]

hey a wanna sleep with my boyfriend but im to shy to say that to him so how could i drop hints to tell him

[Lacy]

No hints.

Lads are thick when it comes to hints.

You need to tell him straight.

But if you cant even talk about it, i'd suggest you arent even ready to do it?

[D'OHnut]

How about snuggling up to him on a chair and peer into his eyes and start to kiss passionately and then around his neck and so forth? That's quite suggestive and certainly good to become aroused. I think I'd quite easily recognise this... :D

[jacaranda]

I agree with Mobily mind you males get easily turned on by us women so as long as they are in to you they will want to sleep with you, he,he

[Mr_Wobble]

Well, when it comes to sex, there's no point beating around the bush. Licking around it perhaps, but not beating. :D Have condoms ready just in case, when the time feels right ask him if he wants to make love (a good expression to use). Talk about it. As LacyMay said, if you're not able to talk about it with him, then maybe the time isn't right.
You will have to tell him fairly directly though, hints don't often work. Well, they don't work very well with me, I can't read signals and hints very well unless they are unbelievably obvious - and then I have trouble believing I'm actually getting hints. :rolleyes: :(

Mr_Wobble ;)

[D'OHnut]

Originally posted by jacaranda
so as long as they are in to you they will want to sleep with you

:angel:

:blush:

Couldn't disagree more. ;)

[EssEmm]

When you're together and you're kissing him, slip your hand in and make sure he knows what you're wanting.

It's dead easy......

:rolleyes:

[David Grohl]

Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
I can't read signals and hints very well unless they are unbelievably obvious - and then I have trouble believing I'm actually getting hints. :rolleyes: :(

Mr_Wobble ;)

Same here Mr Wobble, im shit at hints!

[DaisyChainThing]

If you're too shy to tell him something as simple as that you want to have sex with him then how can you not be too shy to get naked with him and all that? :confused:

Aren't you only about 14 anyway?? :confused:

[HunnyPot]

Originally posted by DaisyChainThing

Aren't you only about 14 anyway?? :confused:

Kind of what I was thinking :eek2: :eek: doesn't seem right to me.

[angelbabe]

:rolleyes: She sounds 14 or possibly younger :rolleyes: I don't get all these threads 'I want to do this how do I ask bla bla', why the fuck go out with them then if you can't even talk openly about things like that ? Just tell him? That might the easiest way unless you perhaps havn't got a tongue in your head which wouldn't surprise me.

[sups stud 2003]

Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
How about snuggling up to him on a chair and peer into his eyes and start to kiss passionately and then around his neck and so forth? That's quite suggestive and certainly good to become aroused. I think I'd quite easily recognise this... :D



thats how it worked for me (well thats how i new she wanted2) we cudnt shag then as we were, kinda in college, locked in a room 10mins before a lecture

[Knee High Stripy Socks]

Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
and then I have trouble believing I'm actually getting hints. :rolleyes: :(

Mr_Wobble ;)

rolleyes indeed! big moo!

[sups stud 2003]

Originally posted by angelbabe
:rolleyes: She sounds 14 or possibly younger :rolleyes: I don't get all these threads 'I want to do this how do I ask bla bla', why the fuck go out with them then if you can't even talk openly about things like that ? Just tell him? That might the easiest way unless you perhaps havn't got a tongue in your head which wouldn't surprise me.




for fuck sake c`min, its the poor girls first time !! cut her sum fuckin slack , an dont be such a bitch!!! geees

[Sprouts]

I agree with angelbabe, some people owt to get themselves educated before they have sex. And I dont just mean about contraception and STDs, but educated about their partners body. They should also be in a steady, mature relationship where they can talk about this sort of thing.
If you think your ready for sex but theres a big BUT or you're scared and not just a little bit nervous because of the excitment, then really you shouldnt be having sex.
This isnt directed at anyone in particular, its just my views.

Ps. for some mature advice on talking about sex with your partner this might be helpful:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/mental/support_sexual.shtml

[Flexigirl]

strip him naked and scream "Fuck me".

Note i have never even had sex let alone used this tactic.

Fraipas

[DaisyChainThing]

Ugh, whoever that sups stud blah blah guy is you should get a grip and just leave angelbabe alone. It's not like she said anything out of order. If the girl can't tralk to her boyfriend and tell him she wants to fuck him then what the fuck? Why does she want to fuck him if she can't even bring up the subject?

I agree with angelbabe. And 14 is a too young anyway. :/ Even though this is coming from me. But I mean, I didn't have sex for another two years after I first had sex at 14. *sigh* And even I could talk to my boyfriend about sex then. It just wasn't quite right.

I think you should at least wait until you can talk about all the sex stuff with your boyfriend and then have sex later on when you can bring up the subject with him and tell him you want to have sex with him. Because it doesn't sound like you are ready at all right now.

If you can't even tell your boyfriend that you want to have sex with him then how on earth are you actually going to do it? :/

[The Philosopher]

In my experience, sex follows on from everything else in a relationship - kissing, cuddling and so on. Basically, I think that if you're planning it, then it's not the right time for you because when you're really comfortable with your partner, sex just seems the natural thing to do.

[D'OHnut]

Originally posted by The Philosopher
In my experience, sex follows on from everything else in a relationship - kissing, cuddling and so on. Basically, I think that if you're planning it, then it's not the right time for you because when you're really comfortable with your partner, sex just seems the natural thing to do.

I agree.

This can be obviously be illustrated by a relationship, but also by a one-night stand. Presumably during the evening you will become very close to the person and relax and generally have a good time. You will feel comfortable and excited and kiss, cuddle and suchlike, followed by sex. So clearly, it's important to be "really comfortable" and for it to seem "natural" without planning it.

[perfect***day]

Originally posted by The Philosopher
In my experience, sex follows on from everything else in a relationship - kissing, cuddling and so on. Basically, I think that if you're planning it, then it's not the right time for you because when you're really comfortable with your partner, sex just seems the natural thing to do.
Hear, Hear.

If you're worrying about how to 'hint' and not even contemplating TALKING to him about it (TALKING in capitals because COMMUNICATION is so important in a relationship, esp a sexual one),then it's too soon to be sleeping with your boyfriend. Don't hurry.

Sorry, your thread wasn't asking whether to do it, I just feel worried that you're not ready; but back to your actual question. Don't hint, TALK to him. Ask him if he wants to take things further and tell him you want to have sex. Is he a virgin too? Make sure he knows you are. There's no other way to do it than being straight, open and communicative and I'm sure everyone else will agree.