fisrt time sex?!?!!?

[Liam is God]

hi, i dont know if this topics been done before so sorry if it has.

rite me and my girlfriend are both virgins, and we both wanna have sex with each other but i dunno how to start it if ya know what i mean, like do i ask first or just pull out a jonny and do it.lol.i dont wanna ask me mates cause theyl take the piss .lol


cheers
Liam is god

[Harmless]

Lol:lol:

Best to ask her first mate, talk to her about it! Otherwise there isn't much point doing it if you can't both agree a time and place

once you to are together, think about how much time you will have alone. If things are going well (i.e, you are past kissing and touching her tits, and have your hand in her knickers)

then go for sex, just give her a good tongue lashing and then put on the rubber and aaaaaaaway you go:p

[Lacy]

Er i dont advise just doing it without asking.

Thats rape.

Do what Harmless says. He knows quite a bit bout it. Not sure why :p

[Cailin]

Well if ye've talked it over, I guess when yer in the right place some night say it to her and if she wants to she'll tell you and remember take your time and be gentle. Thats so important when its a girls first time to be gentle with her. I wish someone told that to the guy I lost my virginity to! :mad:
Good Luck

[sups stud 2003]

hiya mate..... im in the same boat as you..... except im a virgin but my girlfrend aint........... anyway, the easy part is actally gettin to ur room , honestly u wudnt belive how easy it is, now my girlfrend is hopefully cumin to mine on teusday, an heres my plan


lead her upstairs, put on tv/music sit with ur arm around her for a few mins, look her in the eyes, then go to place a slow romantic kiss on her lips, n keep repating this... not actually snoggin, but a sieries of long romantic kisses on the lips, then just begin to cerrese(sp) her, on her legs, our busst, then try to roll her on top of you OR lay rite by her and tell her how much you love her, and then pull out the condom, kiss her agen ask her if she wants to do it, then......... i`ll leave it all up2 u


thats my plan for tuesday anyway

[Lacy]

Originally posted by sups stud 2003


lead her upstairs, put on tv/music sit with ur arm around her for a few mins, look her in the eyes, then go to place a slow romantic kiss on her lips, n keep repating this... not actually snoggin, but a sieries of long romantic kisses on the lips, then just begin to cerrese(sp) her, on her legs, our busst, then try to roll her on top of you OR lay rite by her and tell her how much you love her, and then pull out the condom, kiss her agen ask her if she wants to do it, then......... i`ll leave it all up2 u


thats my plan for tuesday anyway

Yes. Er. Thanks for that :)

[sups stud 2003]

Originally posted by LacyMay
Yes. Er. Thanks for that :)




he asked for help, n i no that`ll work 4me, so it may be the same!!!!



anyway mate just go with ur insitcts!! i reckon that we`ll just no

[Harmless]

Originally posted by sups stud 2003

lead her upstairs, put on tv/music sit with ur arm around her for a few mins, look her in the eyes, then go to place a slow romantic kiss on her lips, n keep repating this... not actually snoggin, but a sieries of long romantic kisses on the lips, then just begin to cerrese(sp) her, on her legs, our busst, then try to roll her on top of you OR lay rite by her and tell her how much you love her, and then pull out the condom, kiss her agen ask her if she wants to do it, then......... i`ll leave it all up2 u


hehehe, then once your done, roll over and fall asleep. it's what she will want :p

[Zella]

Originally posted by Tinkerbelle
quite often its me that falls asleep:blush: and well as you can imagine it pisses him off a little:rolleyes:

i HATE it when my b/f does that! so when i know hes really deeply asleep i stick his finger up his nose:lol: :lol:

[Harmless]

Originally posted by Tinkerbelle
i know youre being sarcastic,

Er yes..... yes I was :razz:

[Zella]

Originally posted by Tinkerbelle
Ahh you've scared me now, hope he doesnt do that to me!
*makes decision to try harder to stay awake*

i doubt anyone else is that mean to thier partners. it makes me laugh some of the things i do when he's asleep. he responds an'all which just makes me laugh cos he dnt know hes doign it!!
hes even managed to finger me when he was asleep:yeees: but i didnt know he was asleep at the time.......

[lisa simpson's saxophone]

If you've already talked about it and know that you both want to do it, then there shouldn't be a problem. I mean, by the time you're alone together and have the opportunity (oops, now I'm making it sound like a business transaction) she'll probably be thinking the same thing as you. But I agree with everyone else, you should definitely ask her first, and it's probably best not to get out the condom before she's said yes. Have fun!

[davedavidson]

Talk about it. Talk till you reach a decision and it will be a lot better. As for initiation..... if you haven't tried foreplay then when you are privately kissing or whatever go to finger her or something. If she stops you then don't try it for a while and ask why. (she may be on her period).
But make sure you have plenty of foreplay before you have sex as it will be a lot better for both of you

[Sprouts]

I agree - talk about it! Thats the best thing you can do. And if you find it hard to talk about then frankly you shouldnt be doing it.