Sex with a different race ?

[BeckyBoo]

Have you ever had sex with someone of a different race? Are you totally against it? Have you ever fancied someone of a different race but peer pressure has made you not go ahead?

Ive never really been attracted to anyone of a different race, where I live the area is prodominently white. However I have seen some very good looking people of other races so if there had ever been a chance to having a relationship with say a coloured person then i would have.

Thanx :D

[perfect***day]

I'd never let friends' or others' racist opinions influence me.

I can't really say I've ever been particularly attracted to a black or asian guy but it's not that I deliberately don't go near them, it's just nature I guess.

[D'OHnut]

Had a few evening's of fun with a lady who was 1/2 English, 1/4 Jamaican and a 1/4 Irish. She was lovely.

I like women of dark complexion the most - say Middle Eastern. But I also am very keen on light-coloured Indians.

[BeckyBoo]

Could you ever have a serious relationship and then maybe go onto have children? or would it be a case of liking a bit of *the other* but thats as far as you'd take it :)

[perfect***day]

Weird thought now you mention it! I can't imagine myself marrying and having kids with someone of another race. Maybe that's just because my family, friends and boyfriend are nearly all white (caucasian?), so I have no experience of being with someone of another race.

As I said, I wouldn't actively decide not to have a serious relationship with someone of another race, but I don't think I'd really be attracted to them in the first place.

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by perfect***day

but I don't think I'd really be attracted to them in the first place.

Now i could be attracted to a black guy. As I said my area is prodominently white im also married so I couldnt, but I do have this thing about black men and some of em are really good lookers :naughty:

Edited to say :
I cant beleive i just wrote that..........my secrets out :lol:

[Lacy]

Ummmm yes.

I find black kiddys as attractive as white people. Although usually i find that i see a lot more good looking blacks than whites (not that i prefer them ick)

I have no problems with race being an issue. My last serious relationship (10 months) was with a black kiddy. An he got me pregnant so er yeah. If things had all gone to plan i would have had a child of mixed race by now.

*waits for Alex to kill her*

[HunnyPot]

Race doesn't put me off. I had a high-school thing with a dark bloke in my tutor group. I think they can be more attractive than white blokes to me at times, but, I don't think I could marry or have children with a dark man. I know this sounds really evil and nasty and bigoted, but it's the way I feel and I can't help it. It's the fact that my children wouldn't look anything like me. But as I have said, I still find men of a diffferent race attractive. I also really like chinese and japanese girls.

I'm going to regret posting this the instant after I click "Submit Reply"

[lil_minx]

ive had relationships with guys&girls from different races, it doesnt make a difference to me --- some black ppl for example are damn sexy, while others are damn ugly. And the same goes for white, asian etc people. I think coming from London ive grown up in a diverse environment and ive had the opportunity to meet and have relationships with many different races. I think race differences in relationships are becomming much less of an issue as it once was!

[Harmless]

Yeah been with two black women before (not at the same time), I mostly go for white girls.

I Do find some Asian women attractive! (Not had the pleasure of being with an Asian women tho)

Think I could have a long-term relationship with an Asian woman more so then with a black woman.

[lil_minx]

Originally posted by HunnyPot
I know this sounds really evil and nasty and bigoted, but it's the way I feel and I can't help it. It's the fact that my children wouldn't look anything like me

thats not evil, i think its a good point

[D'OHnut]

I would absolutely love a long-term relationship (ideally marriage) with a woman originally from (or family being from), say, the Middle East, India or Brazil, preferably with lightish skin (distinctly beautiful in India). That would be my dream come true. But due to religious restrictions (especially those from (or whose family are from) the ME and India), it probably won't come true.

[Alessandro]

I don't have any problem with being with someone of another race. I've found at one time or another that I've been attracted to people of all races.

I would guess its more common over here (U.S.) because there are more people of other races, especially in the big cities.

I think that worrying that your children wouldn't look like you is the kind of thing that won't affect your being with someone. If you love that person enough that you want to be with them for a long time, or forever, you would want the children to partially resemble the person you were in love with, wouldn't you?

And you your children never completely resemble yourself anyway. Unless there's some asexual reproduction going on. :p

[monocrat]

Originally posted by BeckyBoo

Ive never really been attracted to anyone of a different race, where I live the area is prodominently white. However I have seen some very good looking people of other races so if there had ever been a chance to having a relationship with say a coloured person then i would have.


I'd have no problem in sleeping with someone of a different race.

[Hippy Chick]

up until last christmas id never thought about going with someone of a different race, not because im racist, but mainly to do with families opinions, area i live, friends i have etc. ive never been attracted to someone of a different race either (obviously you get good looking foreign men, black, asian etc) but its just been natural to expect myself to end up with a white partner.

at christmas i went on holiday to egypt and i met an egyptian lad that worked in the hotel i was stayin at. he liked me and i sort of fell for him. race, culture, religion : none of it mattered. my parents really liked him aswell (which was shocking) and i had to come home heart broken.
in march i went back to see him again. it was an amazing two weeks and im head over heels in love with him. being away from him is so hard but ive learnt a valuable lesson. never rule out giving someone a chance just because they are a different race, religion, culture, a different ANYTHING.

(may i also add i did sleep with him and it was just the same as sleeping with someone who is white)

[Toadborg]

Originally posted by Harmless

Think I could have a long-term relationship with an Asian woman more so then with a black woman.

Dare I ask the reason for you thinking that........?

[TempleOfDreams]

My current bf is half-Italian - does that count?! :D lol

I can see I'm totally gonna be shot down now... but...

I think I could sleep with another person of a different race - except, for example, I couldn't sleep with a black bloke. No offence to them, I just don't find them, attractive what-so-ever. And I know looks aren't supposed to be important in the way of relationships... but they are a teeny weeny little bit important to everyone. I couldn't sleep with an Asian person either. I don't know why, I just couldn't do it!! And I wouldn't ever discriminate against someone who did, it's their choice - just not mine!

But, in years to come, if I ever sleep with a black/Asian bloke (which I doubt!) I will bite my tongue on all this I have just written :D

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by TempleOfDreams
My current bf is half-Italian - does that count?! :D lol

I can see I'm totally gonna be shot down now... but...


Id hope not, its your choice :)

The thing is if you dont like carrots you dont eat em do ya, so this is exactly the same.....ish :lol:

[TempleOfDreams]

Originally posted by BeckyBoo
Id hope not, its your choice :)

The thing is if you dont like carrots you dont eat em do ya, so this is exactly the same.....ish :lol:

:lol: Actually, that's a valid point!! :D

[QuickStar]

ive neva been attracted to asome one from another race. i wouldnt let people tell me if i could date some one from a different race or not, if i like some one i'd go fot it.

[Harmless]

Originally posted by Toadborg
Dare I ask the reason for you thinking that........?

Well, the reason I think that is *from my own experience* black girls are a handful, and I wouldn't have the time to keep playing their games.

whereas, from what I've seen......Asian girls are more faithful and wont fuck you around as much.

Hence why I'd have a one night stand with a black bird, but nothing more.

[Mr_Wobble]

To me it doesn't matter what the skin colour is, as long as I find them attractive. As for a relationship, hmmm, it depends upon them, and their attitudes more than anybody elses. It wouldn't bother me, and I'd be willing to give it a try, but if they've got issues, and keep on going on about them, then it's a hopeless relationship.

Mr_Wobble ;)

[Mr_Wobble]

Acutally, one of the prettiest races, to me, has to be the Chinese. Or half Chinese, half caucasian. Mmmm. I'd like to sleep with a Chinese girl sometime. :yum:

Mr_Wobble ;)

[HornyDevil]

I'm an Asian guy and always feared that a considerable number of white girls would not be interested in a relationship with an Asian - not cuz they're racist but for all the reasons stated here - which I used partially as an excuse for being "unlucky in love". Cuz where I'm from, Middlesbrough, Asians are despised since too many conform to the "paki twat" stereotype.

[jacaranda]

Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
Had a few evening's of fun with a lady who was 1/2 English, 1/4 Jamaican and a 1/4 Irish. She was lovely.

I like women of dark complexion the most - say Middle Eastern. But I also am very keen on light-coloured Indians.

That counts me out then

I personally liked an Indian guy once but I'd never touch their sort again. No I will be sticking to the great white guys from now on.

[CHEEKy]

Well I am chinese.I was born in South Wales but brought up in Manchester.My parents are chinese.I don't have a problem with it Im more ttracted to the whites in particular.They are alot more loving than any othet race.I understand them more than any other race.They seem to understand me.Its a good job my boyfriend doesn't mind.He loves the fact.Children wise.I think Chinese and English is a good mix.The colour of the hair is a nice golden brown color.I'm in a mixed relationship and it hasn't caused any problems.I love it.I so prefer english to the chinese.Families are alot nicer.My boyfrien is alot nicer sorry I just had to put that one in.

[xapis]

I've never actually done anything with anyone from another race, but I really liked a black guy for a very long time. It's a difficult question, because although I would have no problem going out with someone of another race if i liked them enough, I'm not sure I can see myself wanting to have children with them...but if i was really in love with them, then I suppose I would...

[strawberrychild]

Originally posted by HornyDevil
Cuz where I'm from, Middlesbrough, Asians are despised since too many conform to the "paki twat" stereotype.

Hey if you think that's bad...take a trip down to Harrow.

I went out with an English girl once. She was very nice. I don't mind being Chinese. I've got a permanent tan..hehe..

[Lacy]

Originally posted by jacaranda
That counts me out then

I personally liked an Indian guy once but I'd never touch their sort again. No I will be sticking to the great white guys from now on.

Aint that a bit like racist?

[Mr T]

Originally posted by Harmless
whereas, from what I've seen......Asian girls are more faithful and wont fuck you around as much.


You'd be suprised, go to any london uni and theres asian hoes galore!

Personally I find asian girls (particularly indian and middle eastern) more attractive then white girls, although I dont think it'd be an issue in a relationship.

[perfect***day]

Originally posted by BeckyBoo
Id hope not, its your choice :)

The thing is if you dont like carrots you dont eat em do ya, so this is exactly the same.....ish :lol:
Never give someone of an orange-ish race a blowjob...?

[D'OHnut]

Originally posted by jacaranda
That counts me out then

Of course it does not. :)

*Sings* If you're looking for me, I'm down by the sea, I'm under the sun. Where the seagulls fly in the clear blue sky somewhere under the sun. */sings*

[fatherbarre2001]

I am the product of a mixed race relationship (english and black-african) and i don't know if it's my social upbringing but I find white girls a lot more attractive than coloured girls.

[Meryn]

Originally posted by strawberrychild
Hey if you think that's bad...take a trip down to Harrow.

Really? My boyfriend lives in Rayners Lane and I've not noticed much of a problem - race isn't an issue in his friendship group, and he has a few very good asian mates, who don't seem to have any problems with racism, or being perceived as 'paki twats'. Of course this is just one example, and not living there myself I don't really see the whole picture. Although coming from somewhere as insulated and predominantly white as Midsomer Norton, I find the cosmopolitan nature of Rayners Lane really refreshing.

Sorry, I've been rambling and not answering the original question...

I don't think I'd rule out having a relationship with or sleeping with an Asian/black guy any more than I'd rule out sleeping with a blonde guy. I haven't been particularly attracted to any of those types so far, but who knows what the future holds? Although, obviously I hope that all this will be irrelevant as I intend to hold on to my current boyfriend for a long long time! :D

[kevlar85]

Originally posted by Meryn
Really? My boyfriend lives in Rayners Lane and I've not noticed much of a problem - race isn't an issue in his friendship group, and he has a few very good asian mates, who don't seem to have any problems with racism, or being perceived as 'paki twats'. Of course this is just one example, and not living there myself I don't really see the whole picture. Although coming from somewhere as insulated and predominantly white as Midsomer Norton, I find the cosmopolitan nature of Rayners Lane really refreshing.


Yeah, I'm a bit surprised by that too. I go to school in Harrow-on-the-Hill and I've never seen any racism, mind considering half the school is Indian it wouldn't be a good idea! Although you tend to get people sticking to their own race but not in a hostile way - I'm the exception to the rule, all my best mates are Indian (and a Japanese guy!).

Anyway back on topic, I don't think I'd ever rule anyone out, I think it's just who you find attractive and everyone has preferences. I think it's the way you're brought up, being brought up in North London means you mix with people of all races so there's no point being racist unless you want to cut yourself off from a large group of people you could be mates with. For myself, I'd probably prefer a mediterrean looking girl, but I think it always depends on if the spark's there or not.

[big_man_with_a_]

personally i'm equal opportunities, i've fancied at least one girl of every colour during my time.... i just find people in general attractive 'cos i walk around with my eyes open.

when i was younger i had a dream, it was to go around the world and get with a woman from every country, quite an ambition, won't be doing it now though as i've found what i was looking for. might take her with me and screw in every country though... :p

[crumpets]

the thing is that i grew up in a multicultural area in brum so you can imagine what's it like BUT i do tend to find alot of asian(as in indian) guys are dicks(sorry but is it cos they hang around in groupies) ..im oriental girl and i have a long term relationship with a english guy-we are technically on the same level anyway cos im british!:D anyone in the same boat as me?generally people tend to stick to their own race but different race couples are on the increase.

[Toadborg]

Originally posted by Harmless
Well, the reason I think that is *from my own experience* black girls are a handful, and I wouldn't have the time to keep playing their games.

whereas, from what I've seen......Asian girls are more faithful and wont fuck you around as much.

Hence why I'd have a one night stand with a black bird, but nothing more.

I thought as much.............:(



I personally liked an Indian guy once but I'd never touch their sort again. No I will be sticking to the great white guys from now on.

:eek:

i can't believe you said that really, like lacymay suggests, that is a very rascist comment.........:impissed:

[Bandit4911]

Ive never had a problem with it..............Ive been out with a Welsh Girl, a black Girl and even a Derby County fan:eek:

My conclusion is that race or colour makes no difference at all, they`re all beautiful.......................................ap art from Derby fans!!

[Toadborg]

:lol:

[Harmless]

Originally posted by Toadborg
I thought as much.............:(



You thought I that am I prejudice?:confused:

I am a bit, but through my own personal experience. I’m open to change my opinion, but the change doesn’t just need to come from me (that’s my belief anyhow)

My attitude is only like this through what I’ve seen living in London, (I’ll remind you that that is the most mixed City in England). I can see you might deem me to be a racist, but I learn from my past experiences on how to perceive people, and as I’ve said, these are easily able to change!

And I have slept with two black girls before, and would again. Just not date them (I have in the past, but wouldn’t any more)

[byny]

Originally posted by BeckyBoo
Could you ever have a serious relationship and then maybe go onto have children? or would it be a case of liking a bit of *the other* but thats as far as you'd take it :)

If I loved them I'd want to be with them whatever their colour!! Don't think it comes into it at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Toadborg]

Originally posted by Harmless
You thought I that am I prejudice?:confused:

I am a bit, but through my own personal experience. I’m open to change my opinion, but the change doesn’t just need to come from me (that’s my belief anyhow)

My attitude is only like this through what I’ve seen living in London, (I’ll remind you that that is the most mixed City in England). I can see you might deem me to be a racist, but I learn from my past experiences on how to perceive people, and as I’ve said, these are easily able to change!

And I have slept with two black girls before, and would again. Just not date them (I have in the past, but wouldn’t any more)

Yes, as you admit yourself.

It is encouragign that you are open to new suggestions but i would suggest you are thinking in the wrong way.

However many black people you meet, it does not mean you can steretype, you are saying that black women make bad partners.

What you might say is that the black women you have met would make bad partners but until you have met every black woman you cannot make the generalisation........

I am from leicester which is just about the most diverse city in britain and I do not perceivr people the way you do.

[Jowolvo]

I think our generation is less bothered, if at all bothered by race than our parents were. I found this out recently when i saw a family friend who is black. My parents didn't like me seeing him-they wouldn't have minded if he was white but they were thinking of my "reputation" and the effect that haqving mixed race kids would have.

I was more concerned with him being 2 years younger!I never even took his race into account.

My parents up until then loved this guy. Still they aren't happy now I'm seeing a guy with a kid. Never satisfied.....

[strawberrychild]

Originally posted by Meryn
Really? My boyfriend lives in Rayners Lane and I've not noticed much of a problem - race isn't an issue in his friendship group, and he has a few very good asian mates, who don't seem to have any problems with racism, or being perceived as 'paki twats'. Of course this is just one example, and not living there myself I don't really see the whole picture. Although coming from somewhere as insulated and predominantly white as Midsomer Norton, I find the cosmopolitan nature of Rayners Lane really refreshing.


I didn't mean it like that. Harrow's got alot of Indian people that's all. Half my friends are Indian anyhow.

[kosari193]

I have never had sex with a member of another race but I have got of with them but to be honest I don't particularly look at a person and think, oh he's a different colour. I f I fancy someone, I do nad race does not come into it.

[Zella]

i lost my virginity to a turkish guy and had a 7month rel with him.
he was a bit of an arsehole tho.
from my exerience all the other races ive been out with have made me feel ashamed to be english...if i got somthing wrong or liked a cirtain outfit they'd say to me "god ur so english shut up"
for about 5 years i wished i was greek

[CHEEKy]

Hey Crumpets I am in the same boat as you.Its great.Like I said in my thread they are the better ones.They are more understanding.Other races do seem to have more of a race issue than the rest.

[katchika]

I have only slept with one white, English bloke and he was a complete tosser and crap. Apart from him, nearly all my relationships have been with people of either a different colour or nationality. I am attracted to dark complexions, both a Mediteranian look, Arabian and Central/South American.

I prefer a bloke to be curcumcised, if they're Muslim it's guaranteed so that's helpful!

I don't have any problem with someone being of a different background to me, I find it is interesting to be with someone of a different outlook.

I did have a phase where I was really into black or mixed race men, I went out with one black guy for a few months but had a bad experience so it did kind of put me off somewhat and I don't find myself attracted to black men much anymore. I don't care if someone finds that racist, it's personal as much as some people not liking men with blonde hair.

I can't imagine myself ending up with a white English man although my friends always ask why don't I just go out with someone "normal" and ask if I am the Red Cross because I always go out with immigrants. The bastards.

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by PussyKatty
my friends always ask why don't I just go out with someone "normal" and ask if I am the Red Cross because I always go out with immigrants. The bastards.

lol sorry that was funny :lol: :lol:

[eminemsbytch]

i've only been with two white guys...asians and blacks are soooo hott and i live in a black/asian area so i guess that must be why?!1 most white guys are pussies like my dad...

[The Philosopher]

One thing that sticks out here is how bothered people are to how someone looks. We are all human after all and skin colour doesn't matter one jot to me (my girlfriend is Chinese) but I must say that some races just look more beautiful to me - Asian for example.

[Docter Lurve]

Anybody seeing that film- from dusk till dawn?
Where ouside the club the man gives the speech

""Alright, pussy, pussy, pussy! Come on in pussy lovers! Here at the Titty Twister, we're slashin' pussy in half! Give us an offer on our best selection of pussy! This is a pussy blow out! Alright, we got white pussy, black pussy, Spanish pussy, yellow pussy. We got hot pussy, cold pussy. We got wet pussy. We got smelly pussy. We got hairy pussy, bloody pussy. We got [????] pussy. We got silk pussy, velvet pussy, naughahyde pussy. We even got horse pussy, dog pussy, chicken pussy. Come on you want pussy? Come on in, pussy lovers! If we don't got it, you don't want it! Come on in, pussy lovers!

"Attention, pussy shoppers, take advantage of our penny pussy sale. If you buy one piece of pussy at the regular price, you will get another piece of pussy of equal or lesser value for only a penny! Try and beat pussy for a penny! If you can find cheaper pussy anywhere, fuck it."

You have to here it -its class"
Morale of the story- pussy is pussy!End result at the end of tha day!

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by The Philosopher
One thing that sticks out here is how bothered people are to how someone looks.

Of course people are bothered by the way people look, you have to be physically attracted to someone even before you had sex with them surely :)

[KinkyRed]

Originally posted by Docter Lurve
Anybody seeing that film- from dusk till dawn?
Where ouside the club the man gives the speech


You mean the great Cheech of Cheech & Chong fame?

:lol:

[Kally]

I have had a fare few relationships with black guys. My daughter's father was black, is black i mean.
But my latest is white.
I don't really care about whats on the outside

[Semper Eadem]

Could never bring myself to breed with another race, too much family history etc there to be destroyed if I did.

I believe each and every race is beautiful in its own way and we should do all we can to preserve each and every one of them. :)

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by Semper Eadem
Could never bring myself to breed with another race, too much family history etc there to be destroyed if I did.



So are you saying if you met the most perfect partner for yourself you would not take it any further because of what race they are ?

That just seems a bit sad to me that you would sacrifice a relationship because they werent the same race as you.

[bob84]

I am white and I've only ever been sexually attracted to white women. I can see beauty in people of other races. I sometimes think they are pretty and I might flirt or go out with them, but I don't feel like I would like to have sex with another race. This isn't racism, or about how my kids would look, I put it down to biology... white people have it in their genes to be attracted to white people, because 100 years ago there were only white people around them.

With that said, I just lost my virginity with a woman who is half English, half Iraqi, just as war with Iraq was breaking out :( Which doesn't look good eh. My mum said I was sleeping with the enemy :( I daren't let my dad find out, he's even more racist. He really took the piss out of me when I went out with an asian girl once. I've fancied white, asian and chinese girls, but I've never fancied a black girl, I don't know why.

I don't see this ever happening, because I am mostly attracted to white women, but if I found "the one" and she was not white, I would seriously have to consider the opinions of my family, their peer pressure would make me feel bad. It's sad huh.

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by bob84
but if I found "the one" and she was not white, I would seriously have to consider the opinions of my family, their peer pressure would make me feel bad. It's sad huh.

I have actually seen T.V programmes about this type of thing, one of which was Kilroy. They had a familly on there and basically a girl met and fell in love a black man. The whole family were against it, anyway she married the black man. To cut a long story short about 3 years down the track her Father and Hubby became best of mates. they went out drinking, holidays together etc.
So it just shows although families could be against it at the beginning in time they would accept it that the marriage was gonna be permament wether they liked it or not :)

[Semper Eadem]

Yes Becki, I would sacrifice my own happiness for my family would I deem it necessary. :)

[Senor Miguel]

well i don't post here much but i find this is an interesting subject....i have a strange background because i am half indian half german but have been raised in a traditional british way (since the age of 10), my father who brought me up was english and i have a british passport, plus the fact i know very little about asian culture or where i come from etc., so for all intents and purpose i feel english. All my brothers and sisters are white and this used to bother me a little but now its not even an issue and although I am aware of my colour I sometimes totally forget because I have lived in an otherwise completely white family, and some of my friends view me as white because they think I just have a tan or something (I am quite light skinned as indians go, esp. in the winter). Of course when i look in the mirror it is very clear to me that i'm asian, but i've often wondered to what extent my colour affects how attractive i am to other girls in my area. I live in a predominantly white area and although I am good friends with lots of english girls, and often get told i am goodlooking (not blowing my trumpet), it never seems to go any further and as well as being frustrating I can't really understand it....i mean i am attracted to girls of all races but i honestly believe that being asian has hindered my chances with certain women, i mean i see women staring at me in clubs or whatever but something stops them, is it just my colour? (sniffs under the arm)......well, enough rambling from a stranger, hello to all on the site, i know i havent really introduced myself but im sure theres plenty of time for that, i have been visiting this site for ages and you seem like an agreeable bunch, i hope to get to know you all better and i will try and post more

Michael

[ShyBoy]

I like caucasians, scandinavians, and a mix between caucasian and asian.

I wouldn't stop myself having a relationship with anyone based on their race but the kind of people I don't find attractive are Africans and Very dark tanned Indiands, it's just my preference.

But no matter who it was if I felt happy with them and such I wouldn't have hiccups about having children because of their race.

[Sa-ra-ra-ra]

Um... this is a good topic, i don't remember the last time it was covered.

In answer to the question, yes, i would (and have) sleep with people of a different race to me - i had a 9month relationship with a half asian bloke (but you wouldn't have been able to tell, he looked completely asian!) and i've slept with a black bloke, who also happens to be one of my close friends. It actually doesn't matter to me at all, and i've been attracted to other people as well... there was a gorgeous waiter when i was on holiday in turkey last year! It's not an issue i take into consideration, i've been lucky in that my parents are hugely open minded and have tried to instill that into us, and living in london means that you're constantly exposed to other cultures, which i feel is a good thing.

I have to say that i've never felt attracted to any chinese or eastern european men, or at least, not the sort i've come into contact with around where i live, but that's not to say that i won't be.

And i can see where Harmless is coming from with his 'i wouldn't date a black girl' comment - where i live (which is near where he lives), the black girls - not all of them, i have to say, but some, can be very racist against white people, and also just are quite rude, particularly when they hang out in groups.

[Sanj33v]

Yea, rude girls eh sara - bet sara fancies the Waverly girls though :P

Um personally, also having been brought up in London, I havnt found race that much of a prob in terms of who I like, but I have found it a bit of an issue that some white girls do have.

The last time I had a problem though was in a dodgy club in France when I was talking to this northern girl, and she basically told me fuck off paki.

I mainly find white girls attractive (which is often a problem, as it seems the ones I come on to seem to have a bit of a het-up about it), but I also have a thing for oriental women (never been with one though). That said, I've mostly slept with white girls, and 1 mixed race girl.

[Jenny24488]

I absolutely love black men & dream of having kids with 1. :heart: I live in an area which doesn't have many black men here. I will notice & check out a black man all the time, :flirt: & I think they r so sexy. ;)

[rockerchick]

i went out with an iranian bloke


but he turned out to be a tosser who put me off all of them

[Sa-ra-ra-ra]

Originally posted by Sanj33v
Yea, rude girls eh sara - bet sara fancies the Waverly girls though :P

EEEEWWWWWWWWW, waverly girls!

George got mugged by Waverly girls when he was younger :D

hehehe

[Mr T]

Originally posted by TheShyBoyInTheCorner
Very dark tanned Indians

Tan?? :lol:

[Semper Eadem]

I absolutely love black men & dream of having kids with 1. I live in an area which doesn't have many black men here. I will notice & check out a black man all the time, & I think they r so sexy

[racist remarks removed by moderator]

I am so glad you are not my daughter :rolleyes: Is your Dad Ken Livingstone?:D :D

[Sanj33v]

******** alert? Is that supposed to be funny? :rolleyes:

Iam so glad you aren't my daughter :mad:



George got mugged by Waverly girls when he was younger

Yea, that was hilarious - thing was, I heard they literally asked to see his phone and took it lol :lol:

[Semper Eadem]

sorry 'Sanjeev' :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by Semper Eadem
Yes Becki, I would sacrifice my own happiness for my family would I deem it necessary. :)

So lets say you find someone of another race as the person youd love to spend the rest of your life with. They are gorgeous, witty, loyal, loving and everything you could ever dream of but they are the wrong colour. So then you meet someone of the same race as you, but theres no way on this earth they would match up to the person of a different race then youd opt for second best? basically ruin your life becasue the family dont agree with you?

Id like to know how many other people would stay with their own race just to keep the family happy. I would never do what my family WANT me to do, im my own person, I choose who i want to see and when i want to see them. If my family ever told me I couldnt date someone of a different race then id totally 100% rebel against them........NOBODY tells me what to do :)

[Kally]

My family is happy as long as i'm happy, so fortunately i don't have to choose between them and a man, i feel sorry for anyone who does.

[Sanj33v]

Yea, your right becky.

I dont think my family would have a big problem with my marrying someone of a different race - one of my uncles has done it. That said, I would still want my children to be brought up in a way that they can still experience their heritage - from BOTH sides.

[DaisyChainThing]

Originally posted by BeckyBoo

Ive never really been attracted to anyone of a different race, where I live the area is prodominently white. However I have seen some very good looking people of other races so if there had ever been a chance to having a relationship with say a coloured person then i would have.

Same here. I mean I see guys when I'm out clubbing or on TV from other races who I think are good looking and who I'm attracted to but I've never been with one because I'm still mainly attracted to white guys.

But if I fell for or wanted to get into a relationship with someone from another race I wouldn't not get involved because of their race or anything like that. As long as I care for and am attracted to the person and he feels that way for me that's all that matters to me.

[Naz]

i'm pakistani (well my parents r...I was born in Yorkshire!) n i was brought up in Halifax which is almost totally white. then wen i was ten we moved to london and i met soooooooooooooo many asian ppl and sum blk ppl.

for me colour is not an issue at all, at least not while i'm yung n just lookin 4 a bit of fun.

wen u get into the issue of marriage though it becomes a diff story. my parents wud disown me, beat me, do god-knows-wot if i was to turn up and say i wanted to marry a guy who wasn't a 'good pakistani muslim boy'.

:D i've never actually dated anyone asian though...hahahaha! but i still dnt kno if i'd be willing to sacrafice my whole family for sum1 who i loved. hope i never actually face this dilemma...:eek:

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by Naz

:D i've never actually dated anyone asian though...hahahaha! but i still dnt kno if i'd be willing to sacrafice my whole family for sum1 who i loved. hope i never actually face this dilemma...:eek:

so when you are slightly older and go for a more serious relationship chances are you will date only people your parents would like.
I appreciate its your culture and whatever but to me its such a shame that people cant just go out and date whoever they want. To me your happiness should come first. If they were of a different race, religion etc and it did not bother you then why should it bother anyone else :confused:

[The Philosopher]

You're right BB, it's stupid how people have their families dictate who they go out with or marry. After all, when your parents are gone, you've got the rest of your life with the person who you only married because your parents said so.

Isn't that a bit immature? I mean that, being adult gives you the freedom to make your own decisions and that includes who and from what part of the world they may be from, you go out with.

Personally, when I started going out with my current girlfriend (who is Chinese), I didn't once stop to consider what other people or my parents would think. Why should I?

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by The Philosopher
didn't once stop to consider what other people or my parents would think. Why should I?

But I think its a culture thing, they have (Asian), been brought up for millions of years that it is wrong to date someone of another religion and if they ever did date someone of another race then they would be insulting the family. Please feel to correct me on the last statement im just telling you how I see it.
So yeah I think its more to do with the culture and tradition :)

[The Philosopher]

Ultimately, that will be the downfall of us if we don't change our ways. Ok, so that's looking at the broader picture but there are many advantages to having a partner who is different from yourself - genetic diversity for example.

I didn't think of any of this when I met my girfriend, it just happened and I wouldn't let family or friends get in the way. Not that they have of course, although she says her father is "traditional" so that might be a problem in the future. Sometimes you just have to follow your heart.

[Amie Burtler]

Originally posted by BeckyBoo
Have you ever had sex with someone of a different race? Are you totally against it? Have you ever fancied someone of a different race but peer pressure has made you not go ahead?

Ive never really been attracted to anyone of a different race, where I live the area is prodominently white. However I have seen some very good looking people of other races so if there had ever been a chance to having a relationship with say a coloured person then i would have.

Thanx :D

This may seem bad, but I don't find any other race attractive, not even italian guys, not for me mate......i'm a white english man girlme!!!!! Don't even like american men......i'm not racist though!:confused: :)

[Docter Lurve]

Originally posted by Amie Butler
This may seem bad, but I don't find any other race attractive, not even italian guys, not for me mate......i'm a white english man girlme!!!!! Don't even like american men......i'm not racist though!:confused: :)

What about us wee Irish Lads?
:crazyeyes

[Amie Burtler]

Originally posted by Docter Lurve
What about us wee Irish Lads?
:crazyeyes


ok then, great britain blokes......lol!;) :naughty:

I used to fancy a sexy Irish man!

[Docter Lurve]

Originally posted by Amie Butler
ok then, great britain blokes......lol!;) :naughty:

I used to fancy a sexy Irish man!

Well im still dont fall into that category-

But i'll let you fancy me anyway :p

[Toadborg]

Originally posted by BeckyBoo
But I think its a culture thing, they have (Asian), been brought up for millions of years that it is wrong to date someone of another religion and if they ever did date someone of another race then they would be insulting the family. Please feel to correct me on the last statement im just telling you how I see it.
So yeah I think its more to do with the culture and tradition :)

Well until fairly recently it would be frowned on in Britain by most white families to marry outside of the religion, I know christians whose parents wouldn't approve of marrtying outside of their church..........

[Naz]

its true its a cultural thing. i personally believe i shud be allowed to date whoever i want and if i was strong enuff i wud. but i dnt think u realise how serious it wud be if i was to bring home a guy who wasn't my race or religion. i kno ppl who have had their legs broken, who have been sent to Asia to 'teach them how wrong they were' and some who have even run away only to have their parents track them dwn and beat them every day for the rest of their lives. there was even a case where a girl ran away with her white lover and was tracked dwn by a bounty hunter.

i can't cope with that! even my mom (who was born in Pakistan) believes arranged marriage is outdated and wrong, but she still believes u shudn marry out of ur race or religion...

i dnt kno. its all messed up. for me its not even a case of datin sum1 my parents wud like later on in life wen i want to settle dwn...i have the good old arranged marriage crap to deal with! but that....is another story! lol

but basically its just not as easy as standin up to ur parents and sayin 'i will be with who i want'. esp 4 asians. cos most asians live in a pretty tight knit community n change doesn't come easily at all. u have to be reali reali tough if u want to marry sum1 of ur own choice.

then theres the fact that ur parents have looked after you and brought u up...i personally dnt think i cud hurt them that much. they have dealt with a lot from me n my body (in terms of health). but its sumthing 4 the future which remains to be seen...

[VinylVicky]

My mate who is of asian background and 23 married a 40 year old white man and they couldnt be a more odder couple to look at or to know but they are deeply in love and are amazing together. However they love miles away from where they are from, as her mother and family wouldnt accept them and they are trying to hunt them down :(

[Sanj33v]

Yes, it is quite a problem with Asian families, altho Iam quite lucky. I think that if your brought up in a prominently Asian area, you are expected to marry into your culture.

Personally, I dont give.

ITS SO FUCKING STUPID - I WILL SEX ANY RACE DAMIT!

[Amie Burtler]

Originally posted by Docter Lurve
Well im still dont fall into that category-

But i'll let you fancy me anyway :p


I'll fancy you then doctor lurve, don't worry,....i do rather like rabbits.

in fact my best friend is called 'rampant rabbit'!:D

[Docter Lurve]

Im after having to read your post about ten times to wonder why you suddenly started talking about rabbits- only changed it a while ago ans was at a colege social last night so im still hungover-

Rampant being Kinda the reason I picked it :naughty: - and the "Eh, whats up Doc" part-

[Amie Burtler]

Originally posted by Docter Lurve
Im after having to read your post about ten times to wonder why you suddenly started talking about rabbits- only changed it a while ago ans was at a colege social last night so im still hungover-

Rampant being Kinda the reason I picked it :naughty: - and the "Eh, whats up Doc" part-



;) do you know what rampant rabbit is luv?;)

[DG]

Originally posted by VinylVicky
My mate who is of asian background and 23 married a 40 year old white man and they couldnt be a more odder couple to look at or to know but they are deeply in love and are amazing together. However they love miles away from where they are from, as her mother and family wouldnt accept them and they are trying to hunt them down :(


What was the main reason they didn't accept the relationship?

Was it the different Races or the pretty huge age difference?

To me the different races thing don't matter but the 23 and 40 year bit did make my eye brow raise - espacially in Asian families I've come across not too big an age difference is preferred.

[BeckyBoo]

Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
To me the different races thing don't matter but the 23 and 40 year bit did make my eye brow raise - espacially in Asian families I've come across not too big an age difference is preferred. [/B]

Thats not such a big difference really though is it, like 23 years old there are mature enough to decide what age they want to date.

[Good Riddance]

this will end up being a coffee coloured nation. I also used to go out with a 1/2 english 1/2 indian girl and she was gorgeous - best of both worlds, dark hair n eyes, but not hairy. I think asian girls are good looking but 1 problem - seriously hairy, and it is all dark hair, my cousin is beauty therapist n has to wax asian girls who come in and they are seriously hairy. But their faces are beautiful. I also couldn't have a serious relationship with someone of a totally different religion as i couldn't put up with the different culture.

[DG]

Originally posted by Good Riddance
this will end up being a coffee coloured nation. I also used to go out with a 1/2 english 1/2 indian girl and she was gorgeous - best of both worlds, dark hair n eyes, but not hairy. I think asian girls are good looking but 1 problem - seriously hairy, and it is all dark hair, my cousin is beauty therapist n has to wax asian girls who come in and they are seriously hairy. But their faces are beautiful. I also couldn't have a serious relationship with someone of a totally different religion as i couldn't put up with the different culture.


Hairy girls are supposed to be more horney - i.e. the extra hair is due to slightly more testorone

[DG]

Originally posted by BeckyBoo
Thats not such a big difference really though is it, like 23 years old there are mature enough to decide what age they want to date.


I think 23 and 40 is a big difference

By then they should both be mature adults - and day to day age gap like that doesn't make much of a difference.

However I think it's a big difference if they are considering having kids. I would have thought that would have been one of the girl's family's main concern.

[Good Riddance]

'Hairy girls are supposed to be more horney - i.e. the extra hair is due to slightly more testorone'

Hmmm, well, if they were hairy but waxed it all so you couldn't tell then it'd be ok, especially if they are more horny, but when you can see all the hair - especially on back n facial, then that is just gross n wud put me off straight away - wouldn't even get to findin out if they are more horny or not.