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BeckyBoo
07-04-2003, 12:38 AM
I know this has probably been done a thousand times before but what the hell here goes :D

what is your sexuality?

How do feel people react to you if your Gay?

Do you think if youre gay people dont even bother getting to know the real you and the only thing people think about is your sexuality?

or if you have any stories you'd like to share with us about your sexuality then please feel free to tell us :)

Lacy
07-04-2003, 12:40 AM
Im straight.

I have tried stuff with other girls but as Alex says to me time and time again...i like dick too much :rolleyes:

Which is true...!

Silverberg
07-04-2003, 12:41 AM
I'm straight but people seem to think if you kiss another member of the same sex you're gay or bi, although you can just be very drunk.

byny
07-04-2003, 12:45 AM
I'm straight and neither my gay friends not my straight friends are interested in my sex life or sexuality.

D'OHnut
07-04-2003, 12:46 AM
I am straight and I have never done anything with another male. The idea really does not appeal. However, I am broadminded and mature enough to realise that it is a very personal choice, and one should never judge someone because of their sexuality (or any other factor). Accordingly, I could not careless whether someone is gay or bisexual, so long as they are happy, for their private life is just that - private. Furthermore, I do not see any reason why a straight person should not be friends with homosexual or bisexual people. Those that do discriminate against others are pathetic and intolerable.

BeckyBoo
07-04-2003, 12:47 AM
Im straight, never tried anything with a female and wouldnt want to neither :)

I have not got a problem with anyone whos gay. I know that they arent sat there eyeing me up, some people think because you are gay they fancy everyone and cant genuinely be "Just friends" :)

Kazbo
07-04-2003, 01:12 AM
I'm bi curious....always have been, juts never had the opportunity to experiment properly.

I think most people when I say that think I'm joking. Iknw my mates all think I'm just being silly with it, cos we all messed around about that sort of thing at school. Just an on going joke between us cos of bullying from others when we were younger.

Doesn't bother me anyways what people think. :D

blonde__batman
07-04-2003, 08:25 AM
Originally posted by Kazbo
I'm bi curious....always have been, juts never had the opportunity to experiment properly.
:yes: agrees! same here!

TempleOfDreams
07-04-2003, 08:38 AM
Straight, never done anything with another girl...

girl with sharp teeth
07-04-2003, 10:07 AM
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Bri-namite
07-04-2003, 10:12 AM
I've done stuff with guys before, but I reckon I'm 70/30 straight.

I get a load of friendly wind-ups about the whole camp/gay thing, (I don't really see it myself, I reckon I'm quite masculine) but I find it all really funny.

I think lesbianism should be encouraged at every opportunity though :p

slinkyGirl1
07-04-2003, 12:04 PM
Well i am a straight girl and i have a few gay friends and one bi friend.
I have been bi curious , never really had anything with another girl though, only kissed one, and it was out of a dare - oh yes and me and my best mate tried stuff high school - but that was due to the bottle or 2 of wine that we had!!

Finding out that some one is gay , had never changed they way that feel about them, or act towards them. And being hit on my a gay chick also has never bothered me, i take it as a compliment, just like if a guy hits on me!!
:p

BumbleBee
07-04-2003, 12:17 PM
Originally posted by girl with sharp teeth
i would say i was probably about 60% straight / 40% gay. i've slept with both sexes, but i couldn't see myself having a long term relationship with a woman, mainly because 1) i see my future as including getting married and having kids 2) because i've already met the right bloke for the job :D
:yes:
Same here.

NinjaMaster
07-04-2003, 12:28 PM
I think I must be a lesbian cause I've only ever done things with girls ;)

beautiful_lia
07-04-2003, 01:04 PM
Well im Bi i guess

its weird tho most people have a problem telling there straight friends about a relationship they have with other women but i have a totaly different problem.

i have a problem telling my lesbian friend about guys i like. i feel like i should be ashamed of like men when im with her, but i tell her anyway she either likes me for me or she can hit the road :)

perfect***day
07-04-2003, 01:08 PM
Originally posted by Silverberg
I'm straight but people seem to think if you kiss another member of the same sex you're gay or bi, although you can just be very drunk.

:yes:

I'm straight but I've kissed girls before, usually for a laugh or because I've been drunk. I'm often curious about what it would be like to sleep with another girl but I don't think I ever would, I'm happy with my guy :)

I have one friend who's a lesbian and it doesn't bother me, same with one gay guy - it's not that unusual so I don't treat them any differently or behave judgementally at all I don't think!

Mwaaaa
07-04-2003, 02:44 PM
Im not bi but I have kissed other girls :rolleyes: nothing more though!! I was drunk & it didn't mean anything to me or my friend, just some fun :D

One of my best friends (my boss) is gay & I have no problem with it. My bfriend thinks it weird how we talk about it etc but it's just the same as me telling him about sex with my bfriend. It's great aswell cos he can tell me what he likes so I can try it on my bfriend :naughty:

Harmless
07-04-2003, 03:18 PM
Fuck knows, I wanna be asexual tho


Wonder what it be like to have both pussy and a dick:chin:

Lacy
07-04-2003, 03:26 PM
Originally posted by Harmless
Fuck knows, I wanna be asexual tho


Wonder what it be like to have both pussy and a dick:chin:

Dictionary definition:

a. non-sexual; sexless. asexuality, n.

:lol:

Dont sound like you alex :p

Harmless
07-04-2003, 03:31 PM
Originally posted by LacyMay
Dictionary definition:

a. non-sexual; sexless. asexuality, n.

:lol:

Dont sound like you alex :p

I know what it means Emmsy:p , I just think having none might be easier then having one;) *even if it is really big:p *

Although, Would Having both genders give you the best of both worlds?
:p :confused: :crazyeyes

Lacy
07-04-2003, 03:34 PM
Originally posted by Harmless
I know what it means Emmsy:p , I just think having none might be easier then having one;) *even if it is really big:p *

Although, Would Having both genders give you the best of both worlds?
:p :confused: :crazyeyes

Your missing the point...asexual is a "feeling" thing not a physical thing :p

Being both genders (i imagine!) would just be confusing.

Harmless
07-04-2003, 03:47 PM
Originally posted by LacyMay
Your missing the point...asexual is a "feeling" thing not a physical thing :p

Being both genders (i imagine!) would just be confusing.


Yeah, but be cool to play with ya wedding tackle while looking at your pussy in the mirror. You'd be self-efficient, able to run without a man or a women!
:p ;) :p

Lacy
07-04-2003, 03:53 PM
Originally posted by Harmless
Yeah, but be cool to play with ya wedding tackle while looking at your pussy in the mirror. You'd be self-efficient, able to run without a man or a women!
:p ;) :p

Yeah thats all well and good but what happens bout having kids and stuff?

Wouldnt know what to do with yaself!

big_man_with_a_
07-04-2003, 03:58 PM
am male, i only 'do' girls... make of that what you will.

Harmless
07-04-2003, 04:05 PM
Originally posted by LacyMay
Yeah thats all well and good but what happens bout having kids and stuff?

Wouldnt know what to do with yaself!

Yeah you would, you would fuck yourself big time. No need to worry about lame chat up lines, or buying her drinks. Your going to score big time without a doubt!

Think of the money you would save as well on not having to wine and dine em!

You wouldn’t have to pretend to laugh at his shit jokes as well, it be ideal:p :p

Bahhhhhhhh who wants kids when you can do all that!
;)

SuzyCreamcheese
07-04-2003, 04:59 PM
i think im a bit bisexual, but as im married, it makes no difference as i am monogamous

lovedup
07-04-2003, 05:06 PM
Originally posted by Silverberg
people seem to think if you kiss another member of the same sex you're gay or bi, although you can just be very drunk.

Very true!

In_ya_face
07-04-2003, 05:24 PM
Everyone is slightly lesbian/gay. Even if its just like 5%

NinjaMaster
07-04-2003, 05:47 PM
Originally posted by Harmless
Fuck knows, I wanna be asexual tho

Wonder what it be like to have both pussy and a dick:chin:

You'd have your own private laugh every-time someone told you to "go fuck yourself" :D

HunnyPot
07-04-2003, 05:49 PM
Bisexual. I've done stuff with both sexes....more with girls though. I am however becoming more inclined towards men ;) and as others have said I see myself having a future with a chap and not a chapette.

Zella
07-04-2003, 05:54 PM
im bi, but im more straight than i am gay.
ive had a couple of girlfriends but ive never shagged anouther girl.....i guess ive never fel close enough to the girl to go that far with her.

BeckyBoo
07-04-2003, 06:02 PM
Originally posted by In_ya_face
Everyone is slightly lesbian/gay. Even if its just like 5%

Scuse me :lol:

I am STRAIGHT !!!!!!!

I have never fancied a woman
Never looked (in that way at a woman)
Never had any fantasies about another woman

Please tell me where you got your information from :)

Toadborg
07-04-2003, 06:09 PM
Originally posted by In_ya_face
Everyone is slightly lesbian/gay. Even if its just like 5%

:lol:

**barbie**
07-04-2003, 07:27 PM
I'm straight, even though i have kissed other girls and done a few other things ;). it's always good to experiment :)

Scorpion
07-04-2003, 08:18 PM
I am straight but i am a bit bi-curious. I would really love to experiment with another girl as i have only snogged a girl, nothing more. unfortunately im in a serious relationship with a man and he is very against me trying anything with another girl. hehe. :D

Sopycookie
07-04-2003, 08:41 PM
well ive recently descovered im actually bi, i guess ive been bi curious for a while but never told anyone because all the people i was friends with were quite homophobic. but ive met new people now who are more accepting.
Ive only ever got off with one girl an can't actually experiment with girls at the moment because im in a relationship and dont want to cheat on my boyfriend so itll just have t wait a while.:)

Simba T Lion
07-04-2003, 08:44 PM
Originally posted by Toadborg
:lol:

second that

or third or like sixth or whatever number it is at now

Nick_BR
07-04-2003, 08:49 PM
I'm straight, never done anything with male... :cool:
Just with girls !!!! :D

*Lisa*
07-04-2003, 09:14 PM
Bisexual.

BeckyBoo
07-04-2003, 09:22 PM
I notice we have some bisexual people here, can I ask a bit of a cheeky question? reply if you want to, if not I will stop being so nosey :D

I personally could not kiss another woman passionately, I dont know why, all I do know is that I couldnt do it so how is it for you? like one moment being with male/female and then switching if you know what i mean. Gawd im crap at putting words down, I know what I mean but cant explain it.
Is it a different type of feeling for you, is one sex more loving than the other or if its something else can you tell me. Also when you 1st tried it was it like you expected?

Sorry, but im just curious............no not BIcurious:lol:

jacaranda
07-04-2003, 09:50 PM
Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
I am straight and I have never done anything with another male. The idea really does not appeal. However, I am broadminded and mature enough to realise that it is a very personal choice, and one should never judge someone because of their sexuality (or any other factor). Accordingly, I could not careless whether someone is gay or bisexual, so long as they are happy, for their private life is just that - private. Furthermore, I do not see any reason why a straight person should not be friends with homosexual or bisexual people. Those that do discriminate against others are pathetic and intolerable.

I am straight too and have never done anything with another female. Except I kissed a girl in my dream. How gross is that?! I totally agree with what you have to say. Some very wise words indeed.

Zero II
07-04-2003, 10:18 PM
Originally posted by jacaranda
How gross is that?!

You slipped up a bit there.

I'm straight. Had the odd idea when i was younger that i might be gay or bi, but so do loads of blokes.

Faith
07-04-2003, 10:22 PM
Originally posted by Silverberg
people seem to think if you kiss another member of the same sex you're gay or bi, although you can just be very drunk.

:yes:

I'm straight.

Silverberg
07-04-2003, 10:40 PM
Originally posted by jacaranda
How gross is that?!
Erm, not at all?:confused:

Zella
07-04-2003, 11:10 PM
seconded

QuickStar
07-04-2003, 11:29 PM
im straight. i think im a little bi curious but neva done anything with another girl. if it really came down to it i dont thinkn i could go through with doing something with another girl, i think id find it a little weird...

MySuffice21
08-04-2003, 04:48 AM
I would have to say that I am bi because I am attracted to both sexes and had a few experiences, with both, and I fear telling anyone or too many people because of the fear of being judged by the people, who always said that they would always care.

That is just my humble opinion, on the matter, and I am sorry, in advance, if I have offended anyone.


MySuffice21

girl with sharp teeth
08-04-2003, 10:52 AM
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lil_minx
08-04-2003, 05:17 PM
Im bi.. Ive not had too many problems with people because of my sexuality, but it has happened, mostly with girls.

Theres been a large handful of girls who have been bitchy, immature and bloody prejudiced about me being bisexual. They all thought that because i was bi that i fancied them, which is a pretty self absorbed thing to think.

But most people ive met have been brilliant and it hasnt mattered to them, which it shouldnt. If somebody has problems with me because im bi then i dont give them a second thought, because they're obvioulsy not the type of person i would want to call my friend anyway...

Toadborg
08-04-2003, 06:29 PM
Originally posted by Silverberg
Erm, not at all?:confused:

I think jacaranda may have meant 'gross' for herself, not necessarily for other people, there is a difference.........

eefs
08-04-2003, 08:08 PM
i'm straight. thought i should add my two cents to the discussion since i've been reading it for the past two (three?) days.:yes:

naughtybutnice
08-04-2003, 10:00 PM
I'd say I'm bi-curious. I luv my men but I also have this strange attraction 2 women. All I've done is kissed another girl but I dunno if i'd go any further. I've only recently become open about this as I felt ashamed and abnormal, because all of my mates are completely straight. (Classic case of peer pressure I kno!)

funlovnchic
09-04-2003, 12:46 PM
I'd say I'm mostly straight but am extremely bi-curious!! Have snogged a few women but don't know if I could take it any further. Have almost done in the past but chickened out...

....theres always another time though! ;)

Matthew82
09-04-2003, 01:40 PM
Well, I'm 100% straight, but I've never done anything with a girl (so does that make me non-sexual/asexual?).

Lacy
09-04-2003, 01:46 PM
Originally posted by Matthew82
Well, I'm 100% straight, but I've never done anything with a girl (so does that make me non-sexual/asexual?).

If you had no feelings for either sex, that'd make you asexual.

sfnu
09-04-2003, 03:42 PM
mmmmm dont know. never kissed anyone of any gender, so i wonder. i am attracted to lads though - i'll think 'oh she's pretty' etc but not 'phwoar' like i think when i see a nice lad. bi-curious then, i think.

WLH
09-04-2003, 05:49 PM
I'm straight and have never tried anything with a bloke. I have had friends who are gay. I don't have a problem with it at all - in fact I would be quite flattered if they fancied me, though I would have to say no to their advances because the idea of trying it on with another bloke does not appeal to me.

big_man_with_a_
09-04-2003, 05:50 PM
Originally posted by will haycock
I'm straight and have never tried anything with a bloke. I have had friends who are gay. I don't have a problem with it at all - in fact I would be quite flattered if they fancied me, though I would have to say no to their advances because the idea of trying it on with another bloke does not appeal to me.

i'm sorry, i'm just very amused by your name... :D musta been a bitch at school.

BeckyBoo
09-04-2003, 06:11 PM
Originally posted by girl with sharp teeth
becky, it's just like a kiss with a bloke,

Well i can imagine that, but you see me being straight the thought of me kissing another female is unbearable. I may get shot for this and shouted at but infact id probably be sick.

Sorry but thats just how i feel.........its just not my cuppa tea :)