Pain

[Jo_is_an_Angel]

Ok, I've had sex 5 time now and it still hurts when he enters me. I've heard loads of stuff about it hurting the first time but should I be worried because it's still happening now.

It doesn't hurt all the way through the sex its just the first few seconds where he goes in.

Thanks in advance

[monocrat]

Sex shouldn't really hurt. If you say it's not your first time, I'd see a doctor about your problem.

[Jo_is_an_Angel]

Its not i'm not enjoying the sex - it's just those first few seconds that seem to hurt me.

I am really worried about it.

[Sprouts]

I agree seeing a doctor isnt really nessecery at this stage.
How bad is the pain? If its just in the first few seconds of penetration are you sure you're turned on enough for entry? I sometimes have the same problem as you. I think the key is to relax completely, but without making an issue of it cos this can cause you to tighten up, if you worry about it too much.
Your still in your first few times, so my best advice is to not worry, and get back if its still happening in a few weeks time.:)

[Jo_is_an_Angel]

Yeah it isn't that bad really it's just a bit disappointing really because its like i want the sex, and i imagen that moment when he comes in is goin to be really good - and then it hurts me!

Luckly it gets better as we go on though.

Last weekend he made me come and then entered me - but he said I still wasn't that wet - this my problem?

[Sprouts]

a-ha! If your not very wet then yes that could be the problem, but luckily its easily rectified. If you are really turned on but not very wet then all you need to do is pop out and buy some lubricant, some K-Y Jelly from boots or somewhere similar should do the trick!
Good luck!:)

[sups stud 2003]

yep, maybe if you try a little oral work an stuff, yur biyfrend wont hurt you upon entry so2 speak

[BeckyBoo]

Youre probably at the stage where you think when he enters me its going to hurt, so the 1st few minuites you subconsiously tense up which will make it hurt. Then when you kinda forget about it you realise it doesent hurt after all.
If you have plenty of foreplay that should start to help you :)

[Mwaaaa]

Originally posted by sups stud 2003
yep, maybe if you try a little oral work an stuff, yur biyfrend wont hurt you upon entry so2 speak

:rolleyes: