Why Did She Do That?

[baron]

Ok, Hello all, I'll get straight on with it. My girlfriend (well ex) has broke up with me (:( sad i know) but she broke up with me saying that she didn't think it was working. I was upset, i cried, went home cried some more:crying: Infact i'm still upset now... anyway. the day after she broke up with me, i got a call of a friend, who said that my g.f took her b.f. out before she broke up with me (confusing i know) and told him that she liked him, and went to kiss him... But wait there's more.... I asked whether this was true to my ex. and she said no, it was the other way round, and she didn't tell me because she thought that i'd think she broke up with me because of this lad.... So what i want to know is, did she break up with me because

a) Things wheren't working out.
b) Because she liked that other lad.
c) Unknown.

:confused:

Thats it, thanks for reading. :)

[**Cinderella**]

Well i cant say the real reason why she broke up with ya, because i dont know whats going on in her head!
But maybe if she has feelings for this other lad, then it isnt going to work properly for you and her is it!
Sometimes people dont feel the same way about you as you do about them and its a lesson that i think everyone learns.
So just put it down as experience and no matter how much your hurting at the moment, believe me it will go away.
Hope you cheer up soon :)

[baron]

She says she still loves me, and that in the long run this will be better for the both of us, where as really, i'm heart broken and she is ( i asked a friend :-\ ), but she still doesn't want me... grrrrrr women are so hard to understand! ( sorry for being sexist lol )

[BumbleBee]

Originally posted by baron
She says she still loves me, and that in the long run this will be better for the both of us
She doesn't love you at all. Well, she might love you ina caring way, but she isn't in love with you. There is a difference.

I don't think you will ever know whether she tried to kiss him or the other way around, so if I were you I would just forget about it.

She doesn't want to be with you so don't waste your energy, I am sure there are lots of lovely girls out there who you can waste your energy on instead!! ;)

[Mist]

Not worth the hassle. She more than likely broke up so she could spend more time with this other guy. She'll say nice things to you though in case it doesn't work out and she wants to get back with you.