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*Lisa*
04-04-2003, 10:20 PM
I havent dun a search so if this has been done, shoot me.

Your views on carryin condoms please :)

you reckon its shows signs of Safetyness or sluttishness?

jacaranda
04-04-2003, 10:21 PM
I think its a good sign to carry condoms. But I can see why some people think its slutty.

SuzyCreamcheese
04-04-2003, 10:22 PM
i cant imagine anyone these days thinking its slutty to carry them, if you might need them you carry them, who would know anyway except you and the person you use them with, and if they thought it was slutty then they dont get to have sex with you do they.

xapis
04-04-2003, 10:26 PM
I think it's a sensible thing to do...shows you're ready to protect yourself and you're less likely to get carried away with yourself and just think "oh it won't matter this once"

Kazbo
04-04-2003, 10:27 PM
It's safety aware, although I know guys who have looked shocked when I've said pass me my handbag rather than leaving them to go searching round their rooms for condoms. But I always carry them, just in case, never know when they're going to eb needed. :naughty:

*hellie*
04-04-2003, 10:28 PM
It's definitely not slutty in my opinion.

littlemissy
04-04-2003, 11:38 PM
DEFINATELY not slutty. its the right thing to do as far as im concerned. its being sensible.

BeckyBoo
04-04-2003, 11:41 PM
Originally posted by *Lisa*
you reckon its shows signs of Safetyness or sluttishness?

Shows you got yer head screwed (hahah screwed ;) ) on the right way :D

My silly lickle jokes.....ignore me :lol: :lol:

*Lisa*
05-04-2003, 12:36 AM
Originally posted by BeckyBoo
Shows you got yer head screwed (hahah screwed ;) ) on the right way :D

My silly lickle jokes.....ignore me :lol: :lol:

LMAO, mad me giggle hun.

*Lisa*
05-04-2003, 12:37 AM
Originally posted by Kazbo
It's safety aware, although I know guys who have looked shocked when I've said pass me my handbag rather than leaving them to go searching round their rooms for condoms. But I always carry them, just in case, never know when they're going to eb needed. :naughty:

I said to a "friend" the other day pass me ma bag and he nearly fainted coz i carried them. Anyways least im safe. Tra la laaa

Kazbo
05-04-2003, 12:54 AM
Originally posted by *Lisa*
I said to a "friend" the other day pass me ma bag and he nearly fainted coz i carried them. Anyways least im safe. Tra la laaa

Exactly...better to be safe than sorry. :D

Mr_Wobble
05-04-2003, 01:08 AM
Nope, it isn't slutty to carry condoms. It used to be percieved that way, and still is by some people, but most people are seeing the sensible side of it. Though for some reason it's still seen as something blokes should deal with. :confused:

Mr_Wobble ;)

vodka babe
05-04-2003, 01:27 AM
i think safety! :)

perfect***day
05-04-2003, 09:56 AM
I think it's just because carrying condoms implies that you think you're likely to have sex. Which is not at all slutty if you're in a relationship, but I can see how it could be thought of as slutty if you don't even have a guy in mind yet, you're just carrying condoms in case of a 1night stand. I personally don't think there's anything wrong with that, but that's why I think there's a certain stigma attached to carrying condoms.

Mist
05-04-2003, 10:06 AM
Why shouldn't you carry condoms? As a matter of fact, why shouldn't you have sex? I think slutty is a silly term. If someone wants to have sex, they should have sex, and if you think you might, may as well carry condoms.

paperBprincess
05-04-2003, 10:13 AM
*trumpet fanfare* sex and condoms for everybody!:)

perfect***day
05-04-2003, 10:13 AM
I agree, there's no reason why you shouldn't carry condoms - and a huge reason why you should - and there's nothing wrong with it. I should maybe have been clearer, Mist, I don't think it's slutty at all!!! I just think that's why *some* people do think it's slutty and why Lisa felt the need to ask.

Sprouts
05-04-2003, 11:36 AM
But always carrying condoms? Its unlikey that your gonna just pop out and end up having sex isnt it?:confused:

BumbleBee
05-04-2003, 11:39 AM
I carry a condom in my purse, and I have a boyfriend! It is "just incase" we get horny somewhere!

D'OHnut
05-04-2003, 12:13 PM
Some small-minded, naive and old-fashioned people might consider carrying condoms to be sluttish. However, they are definitely worth carrying in order to increase your safety should you have sex.

I carry two condoms in my wallet, just in case anything happens.

This old phrase is very apt: better safe than sorry.

Kazbo
06-04-2003, 01:22 AM
Originally posted by Sprouts
But always carrying condoms? Its unlikey that your gonna just pop out and end up having sex isnt it?:confused:

erm...if you're me you'll have sex anywheres...I always have about four on me. i dunno why, just make sure i'm well stocked up. Back pocket of my handbag comes in handy...spare tampons and my pills in there as well. :D

Kermit
06-04-2003, 01:29 AM
Originally posted by Sprouts
But always carrying condoms? Its unlikey that your gonna just pop out and end up having sex isnt it?:confused:

If youve always got them then you wont have forgotten them when the time comes:)

No, its not sluttish...when I was single I was crap at having them on me (cos I thought Id never get laid) so it was helpful when the lass had them:) Though obviously I didnt dip my wick without a rubber...

Kazbo
06-04-2003, 01:34 AM
Originally posted by Kermit
If youve always got them then you wont have forgotten them when the time comes:)

No, its not sluttish...when I was single I was crap at having them on me (cos I thought Id never get laid) so it was helpful when the lass had them:) Though obviously I didnt dip my wick without a rubber...

Thats a good point, how mnay of you guys do actually always carry condoms...I always find that it's me who's got them and the guys don't, or do I just sleep with forgetful men?

Kermit
06-04-2003, 01:38 AM
Noone should rely on the other person having them, always protect yourself. I didnt think Id need them so saved the hassle and money, but meh. I didnt penetrate if I didnt have a rubber, a lot of lads would have tried it on anyway.

Kazbo
06-04-2003, 01:45 AM
Originally posted by Kermit
Noone should rely on the other person having them, always protect yourself. I didnt think Id need them so saved the hassle and money, but meh. I didnt penetrate if I didnt have a rubber, a lot of lads would have tried it on anyway.

yeah most guys wuld have tried it anyways and yeah never rely on the other person, safer that way. Hence why i do always have them on me and spares just in case. :naughty:

Matthew82
06-04-2003, 04:05 PM
I don't, but only because I don't really rate my chances of ever needing to use them. If I thought I might, I would.

HunnyPot
06-04-2003, 04:13 PM
I think they show "safetiness" and maturity, and good common sense, unless the carrier is flirting wildly with everyone around them, then I might think it looks a bit dodgy.

Kazbo
06-04-2003, 04:23 PM
Originally posted by HunnyPot
I think they show "safetiness" and maturity, and good common sense, unless the carrier is flirting wildly with everyone around them, then I might think it looks a bit dodgy.

:eek: realises she alwasy flirts wildly with everyone around and carries spares...what does that say about her. :D hehe!

eefs
06-04-2003, 09:58 PM
Originally posted by paperBprincess
*trumpet fanfare* sex and condoms for everybody!:)

woohoo!! party! :hyper:

i agree with everyone here. as the boy scouts say...always be prepared.:thumb:

Acrobat
06-04-2003, 10:18 PM
i carry one in my purse.you never know when you might need one. and i agree.....better safe than sorry, i believe in looking after number 1.i dont want a baby, or a STI.