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Silverberg
14-02-2003, 12:06 AM
Theres this girl(as always) and I like her, she has a boyfriend, I also think she likes me. (Waits for hail of abuse) Do I flirt with her or do I leave her with her boyfriend, which is what I have been trying to do for about a month. But I usually just don't try anything if there is a situation like this but i'm more confident now and wondering if I should do anything. (Worded terribly because I'm tired and lazy)
Guest_
14-02-2003, 12:12 AM
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Silverberg
14-02-2003, 12:19 AM
Originally posted by bad seed
But I'd not try anything until she does.
Thats a wonderful sentiment.... In principle.
Ok I didn't say this but it comes to mind 'Shes not married' or something along those lines.
Harmless
14-02-2003, 12:31 AM
Sorry to be rude but weren't you with that rocker chick bird!?
and didn't the same kinda thing happen?
*Locks Emma away from Mr Silverberg* ;)
Don't mess about with her until she's free, I know it's more exciting to do it the other way, but morally its a cuntish thing to do.
Plus, you stand to receive a black eye from the bf/ex bf
Silverberg
14-02-2003, 12:42 AM
Originally posted by Harmless
Sorry to be rude but weren't you with that rocker chick bird!?
and didn't the same kinda thing happen?
*Locks Emma away from Mr Silverberg* ;)
Don't mess about with her until she's free, I know it's more exciting to do it the other way, but morally its a cuntish thing to do.
Plus, you stand to receive a black eye from the bf/ex bf
Finished with rockerchick ages ago for your information.
And I don't know what you mean with the 'same kinda thing'.
I expected this, and that is exactly my problem, i'm not a cunt, and I have a hard time being nasty to people. And I don't think its more exciting the other way. So my dilemma is should I be a cunt once in my life for some one I really like?
Mr_Wobble
14-02-2003, 04:25 AM
Originally posted by Silverberg
should I be a cunt once in my life for some one I really like? Yep. It might just pay off. :)
Mr_Wobble ;)
Lickalotapuss
14-02-2003, 09:43 AM
Be a cunt :) Don't actually try owt on with her just flirt like mad and let her know you are interested. At the end of the day the best mans gonna win so it wouldn't do no harm to try and persuade her your way.
Originally posted by Silverberg
And I don't know what you mean with the 'same kinda thing'.
That you stole her off her boyfriend too :lol:
Harmless
14-02-2003, 11:41 AM
Originally posted by LacyMay
That you stole her off her boyfriend too :lol:
Yes that’s what I meant, I didn’t think I needed to clarify it for you
You seem to be making a career out of taking girls from bf’s, now maybe the bf are to blame too, but you keep playing with fire in that way, and you may get burnt!
Why not just go out clubbing and pull a single girl, Why make your life harder then it need be?
I’m not trying to be an arsehole about this, I just think if you are planning on breaking another couple up, its a bit wrong, once is a mistake, but planning on doing it twice, there’s something wrong in that!
Butterfly00
14-02-2003, 12:00 PM
I say go for it, dont make a move, just flirt, take her number etc, if shes really intrested she'll leave him for you, I left my ex, ex for my ex (long story) but i was so happy...So give it a go x
Samuti
14-02-2003, 12:02 PM
Harmless & co:
You can't help who you fall in love with.
:)
Silverberg
14-02-2003, 11:03 PM
Originally posted by Harmless
Yes that’s what I meant, I didn’t think I needed to clarify it for you
You seem to be making a career out of taking girls from bf’s, now maybe the bf are to blame too, but you keep playing with fire in that way, and you may get burnt!
She wasn't going out with him then, and thanks everyone else who understands, if I could choose who I liked I wouldn't have picked some-one with a boyfriend.
Harmless
14-02-2003, 11:22 PM
Originally posted by Silverberg
She wasn't going out with him then, and thanks everyone else who understands, if I could choose who I liked I wouldn't have picked some-one with a boyfriend.
Ok, ok!
I don't want an argument about this, cos quite frankly, in this state that I'm in, I couldn't give a rat's arse who you bang or whom you go out with.
Just don't try and break up a relationship, play it safe and let there relationship run it's course, if they break up, go for it.
In the mean time, look for other single girls, you only like her right?
Harmless & co:
You can't help who you fall in love with.
He's not in love with her, just likes her (I.e, would like to get into her knickers!)
Let her do her thing with the bf, see how it goes and keep out of harms way, then if they break up. Go for her.
In the mean times, try and go for single girls. (I know I'm saying it twice!) :p
I'm only taking the moral high ground on this one because being a bf, I can see it from the other side!
Silverberg
15-02-2003, 12:46 AM
Originally posted by Harmless
He's not in love with her, just likes her (I.e, would like to get into her knickers!)
I may not be in love with her but not every man wants to get into a girls' knickers.
ShyBoy
15-02-2003, 09:35 AM
Originally posted by Silverberg
I may not be in love with her but not every man wants to get into a girls' knickers.
:yes: i must agree
people who i've liked but not loved i just wanted their company etc, and maybe after time we could start on the phsycial stuff. i think theres a lot of guys who's sole objective isn't sex....
DaisyChainThing
15-02-2003, 02:02 PM
Just let her know you're interested and then back off and leave her to make up her mind. If she wants you I'm sure she'll finish him and get with you, if not ah well, plenty of other girls in the world.
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