am i being unreasonable?

[beautiful_lia]

ok here is the story.
I took my ex back after she hurt me pretty bad. She begged and told me she loved me saying she would do anything to take me back. I was still hurting but i took her back two days ago and now i totaly regret it.
The one thing i asked her to do was to not talk to or about her ex Josh. I want to know is that to much to ask? I told her how much she had hurt my but i still would take her back as long as she promised never to talk to him.
I no how it sounds but i feel so uncomfortable around him i feel so threatened that he will take her away as he has done it before. Anyway yeaterday i was in the bath after talking with Jenni and i was in such a good mood we had talked about Valentines day and how i was going to treat her so special and wot i had planned for us to do. Next thing i know im getting loads of txts off josh saying that him and jenni was talking about me.
So i call her and she forwards me to answer phone ( which pissed me off more ) so i left her a carm message saying that she promised me she wouldnt talk to him and that she was hurting me by doing so. I get a txt off Josh again telling me Jenni got my message and shes really sorry. i was like " then why is she still txting you? and why wont she answer her phone". Anyway i slept on it and we was talking but yet she is still talking to Josh.
So we got in a huge fight and i dumped her again. this is 2times shes lied to me and hurt me like this with him.

so am i being a total control freak?
do i need to be alittle more understanding?
should i let her talk to him and just forget how much it hurts me?

thank you for reading it i no its long.

all help wanted so please post a responce.:(

[benphonic]

no ur not she treats u like shit treat her like shit as well

[juice1984]

i have to say, i think you should forget about this gril. if she loves you as much as she said she would, surely she would do as you wish?or at least be honest and tell you she is not prepared to stop talking to him.

its a pretty nasty girl who can sit there talking to you about valentines day and listening to you saying how you are going to treat her and then turn around and talk to this josh bloke, knowing it would hurt you.

if you love someone then you are honest with them. she obviously didn't want to stop talking to him and she didn't have the balls to tell you. i think you were right to dump her, she had lied to you and hurt your feelings. taking her back again would only incourage her to think she can get away with the same behaviour again.

sorry if that all sounds a bit harsh but from what i can make out she is treating you like crap.

[benphonic]

no ur not she treats u like shit treat her like shit as well

[Sir Cum]

She sounds fucked in the head. Let her go. It sounds like a case of "Get what I want"itus.

To your face "I wuv woo so much I won't talk to him ever again!"

As soon as she is away from you..."Hello Josh! I can't help but talk to you! Boyfriend said to stop but I can't!"

Back to you "I won't talk to him again I promise".

Etc etc.

Bad card in the deck. Put it back and carry on looking for the queen ;)

[beautiful_lia]

Originally posted by Sir Cum
Boyfriend said to stop but I can't!"




im female but i get wot you mean :)

[beautiful_lia]

Originally posted by Sir Cum
Boyfriend said to stop but I can't!"




im female but i get wot you mean :)

[byny]

I think that you should get on with doing things by yourself for a week or so and not get in touch. just leave it so you can sort your head out