What should she do??

[Cheezie Grin]

....advice needed here!

A friend at work has gotten herself into a bit of pickle. She's being seeing this guy who she likes and recently he said that he wanted to be in a relationship, but not a heavy one. This got her thinking. Does he mean an "open" relationship, or just casual.

This started bugging her, and, after a heavy night on the sauce, she awoke to find that she had sent a load of txt messages last night but couldn't remember who too! She is worried that she's sent a "I've heard of heavy but this is luke warm!" message to him as someone else had received half of this.

She needs advice! What should she do?

[TheMistress]

This started bugging her, and, after a heavy night on the sauce, she awoke to find that she had sent a load of txt messages last night but couldn't remember who too! She is worried that she's sent a "I've heard of heavy but this is luke warm!" message to him as someone else had received half of this.


Sorry I may be thick hun but can you explain this part to me a little clearer? When you send text messages it would tell you surely who they were to?

[Cheezie Grin]

Only if she sat up the response thingie on her phone.

It was someone at work who got the half a message at 5:45 this morning and she only found this out about an hour ago.

[TheMistress]

Oh I see!!!

Oh well. what's done is done. Maybe she should confront him now..

[Cheezie Grin]

That's what I said, maybe coming from the "worried, but need to know" about any text messages angle AND then they can talk about their relationship. She's too worried to so that and wanted to do it by text. I think that's a bit chicken and won't help the situation.

[Joolyknockers]

I think fair play for sending that txt message...shame it went to the wrong person!! She needs to confront him and find out exactly where she stands!! Some ppls interpretations of "heavy relationship" are so different!!:rolleyes: