freefallinangel
14-09-2002, 05:44 PM
Hey!
Am new here - obviously - and thought I would pick your brains as to why my ex is playing head games here.....
Long story short... He was working at my place of work doing some maintenance work. He'd been split up from his babymother for 3 months and I was engaged. He chased me constantly until he finally won me over. I split up my guy and we went together. I knew from the first that he was a 'bad boy' but thats half the attraction isnt it? He had 1 kid of his own and another that he looked after.. the MOST important things in his life. I knew that and understood that and thought we'd just have fun. He pushed it and went further and said that he fell head over heels in love for me. We were together most of the time when we werent working or he wasnt with the kids! The connection was immediate and we found our 'Soulmates', if such a thing exists. He was worried tho that he was a part time dad and it bugged him a lot and so I told him to go back and work it out about 8 times. I tried to leave him about 4 times. But NO - he loved me sooo much and i made him soo happy. In the end he dumped me and we said we'd be mates cos he cant bear to be without me in his life. Im the one who understands him and the only one he can talk to. Believe me, its not easy but I was willing cos I love him. But he keeps getting jealous, keeping tabs on me, telling me he loves me and playing hurtful games.... telling me hes made a mistake, that they both know it but that they're giving it a go, that he wants to be with me. TELL ME WHY????
Am new here - obviously - and thought I would pick your brains as to why my ex is playing head games here.....
Long story short... He was working at my place of work doing some maintenance work. He'd been split up from his babymother for 3 months and I was engaged. He chased me constantly until he finally won me over. I split up my guy and we went together. I knew from the first that he was a 'bad boy' but thats half the attraction isnt it? He had 1 kid of his own and another that he looked after.. the MOST important things in his life. I knew that and understood that and thought we'd just have fun. He pushed it and went further and said that he fell head over heels in love for me. We were together most of the time when we werent working or he wasnt with the kids! The connection was immediate and we found our 'Soulmates', if such a thing exists. He was worried tho that he was a part time dad and it bugged him a lot and so I told him to go back and work it out about 8 times. I tried to leave him about 4 times. But NO - he loved me sooo much and i made him soo happy. In the end he dumped me and we said we'd be mates cos he cant bear to be without me in his life. Im the one who understands him and the only one he can talk to. Believe me, its not easy but I was willing cos I love him. But he keeps getting jealous, keeping tabs on me, telling me he loves me and playing hurtful games.... telling me hes made a mistake, that they both know it but that they're giving it a go, that he wants to be with me. TELL ME WHY????