commitment or being single??

[Sweety]

So wat does everyone prefer? Bein in a serious realationship with tonnes of commitment? Or being single and just havin fun with a lot of different people? Let me know ur views! x x <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

[donut]

being in a serios relationship anytime, its much nicer n more personal than just going out snogging loadsa different lads. ive been single for 9 n half months n its killing me!

[Kermit]

Committed relationship, you gain an understanding of each other making the sex twenty or thirty times better.

But eah to their own, if you aint mature enough to commit then it says more about you than relationships.

[Harmless]

I'm free and single now and I Hate it!!

give me a realationship any day <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

as alway will these, i've got to say Love Suck!!

[emmex]

Originally posted by Sweety:
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Relationship anyday. It's just nice being with someone, and having their total trust.

[Quicksilver]

well, i like the relationships, havin someone there for u to cuddle up to, but ive had enuf of them now, too much pain when u break up, makes u think is it really worth it? I dont. Im single, i intend to stay that way, at least till the end of the summer! <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

[*hellie*]

I think overall I prefer a committed relationship but when one is over I love being single. I've been sort of single for nearly 4 months now & i've realised how picky I am with the guys i've been seeing since my ex.....now I just want to find a decent guy who actually lives near me!

[CheeseOnToast]

Definately commitment.

I used to think a relationship was the easy way out, like wow, one girl, commit to her, no problems...how wrong could I be?

I've realised now, any fool can go out and pull loads of girls/guys, it's no big deal, but I realise now it must take two very strong and loving people to make a relationship work.

I suppose it's fun going out on the pull, but after a while it just makes you feel like shit, and lonely <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

I'd love to have someone I could be with right now. <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Oh well, who knows.

Phil.

[beatnu]

I would have to say at the moment i wana stay single. I just gettin use to being single and i just wana hang with my mates for a while before thinkin bout another relationship

[Chica II]

I prefer being in a relationship, but being single has its benefits <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I wouldn't mind a NICE boyfriend at the moment but I'm cool on my own. And it gives me free reign to eye up my English teacher <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> *is a pervert*

[Alani]

Wow, everyone is really into commitment!! I would have to say being single is better because of the freedom, hmmm, that probably says loads about my past relationships!!

[Wonder_Woman]

I was single for over a year. Apart from a few dates here and there I wasn't interested in anything serious. Me and all my friends used to go out almost every night (ahh, the student life! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ) get drunk and snog some random guys. We always had a total laugh.

but then one by one my friends began to get into serious relationships and it was basically just me and my best friend left. We still had a good time but it left me wondering if I was missing out by not committing to one guy.

Anyway, basically I thought I was happy being single until one of my good male friends said he liked me and we've been together ever since.

I definately prefer commitment to being single now. It's nice to know that he's there for me no matter what and I wouldn't swap that for snogging random mingers any day! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Hmm...I sound very cheesy, but never mind. I'm just speaking the truth! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

[sexy little thing]

it depends on the age. i mean, obviously if your about 14 then you'll still want to go out and enjoy yourself but as you get older you want to settle down more.
it also depends on the situation.
i prefer being in a commited relationship as your less likely to get hurt.for example,you could sleep/get off with a person one night and end up really liking them but it's tough because they don't want that.they only went with you because they thought you were just out for a good time.

[viridis]

I kinda enjoy being single in the spring when hormones awaken as opposed to the winter when its nice to have someone to lay around and cuddle with. Also in the spring, I have a wide array of things I like to do and people to catch up to so it takes the right person to want to bring along. I'd like a relationship, but I'll continue to be picky until I find the right one. I certainly would prefer not to get in trouble sleeping around. The older you get(for some), the less appeal that has when your single. Sometimes I have a bad habit of picking up someone in the fall and half way commiting to until the spring. I find that's ok as long as huge expectations aren't expected.

[girliegirlkh]

I've just come out of a 2yr relationship, my decision. After being ordered around and practically ruled 4 12 mths and I feel great. I would safely say being single whilst your young is sooooo important. I feel like I've wasted so much time on nothing, and I won't be rushing into anything else.
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[SuzyCreamcheese]

theyve both got their advantages and disadvantages. ive had 2 long term relationships since the age of 16 and was only single for 4 months inbetween, i must say i really enjoyed myself when i was single and did put myself about a bit <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> and i really wasnt looking for a relationship when i got together with my now husband, but i think im better in a relationship

[Toast]

One nite stands are hollow and a waste of time, but there is too much risk of pain involved with relationships (ask me...bitter personal experience). So either way it's a bit of a mess. Oh well. <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

[hedgehog]

i would rather be in a serious relationship
. that is just my decision im not a really flirting guy im to shy!!!!
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[mr turbo head]

single at the moment...not scared of commitment, but no one wants me