Loneliness

[Rex]

As an overseas student one thing i have found is thiat in the uk if you don't enjoy clubbing and pupping you will die of loneliness.I am getting stressed cos i have no one to talk to.I don't actually enjoy clubs and pups.I neither drink nor smoke hence it is very difficult to find a girl who will like to stay in with you and enjoy quality time together chating.Can any girl prove my assertion wrong?

[Tweety]

Yeah i can prove you wrong, i prefer a good night in with the one you love. I do like to go out sometimes but i do prefer a night in.

[Rex]

You are the fisrt person to say that to me since i came here only if it is true..Well I am also in Bristol.

[Superman]

Aye, aye!!

[~SeaShihtzu~]

I'm happy to say i can also prove you wrong. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
xxs

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Who ate all the pies??

[Burn*Baby]

Yep!

Just2 add another statistic, i think your impression's wildly wrong - there r plenty of us out here who realise theres more2 life than clubbing!

x
Baby



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I used to be schizophrenic, but we're OK now...

[Turtle]

ur also all idiots.

where do u meet people? u don't meet people in their homes, u meet them in pubs (not pups) and clubs.

i mean rex, if u wanna go somewhere with a girl, suggest a coffee house or somethign. but NOT a first date at ur house or something, people will think ur wierd...or maybe u just are wierd.

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If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now

[angel babe]

i met my boyfriend at a club but now that i am going out with him we dont go clubbing we go down the pub a lot but only casualy 2getha i only really go clubbing when im looking 4 someone!

[Tweety]

ur also all idiots.

What the fuck was the point of your post, only to piss people off!!!
Wouldnt it be boring if we were all the same!
If you havent got anything constructive to say dont bother saying anything.

[Moderator]

Back on topic....

We have an article here that may be useful: http://www.thesite.org/relationships/families/beginners_guide_to_making_new_friends.html

[Comedy Dave]

Rex,

I don't know about your Uni, but at mine there are clubs and societies that you can join. Maybe you'd meet more people if you joined some - and you might then have similar interests.

[This message has been edited by Comedy Dave (edited 13-11-2001).]

[MikeG]

Yeah I agree with Comedy Dave... join a few clubs or societies and you'll meet loads of people that way. Maybe you could join the anti-pupping society??

[con4rob5]

Not all girls go pubbing/clubbing , drink or smoke... i for one don't. But, however, most of the people i live with at halls do. A girl in my flat said that u can't have fun if you're not drinking or smoking. I find that hard to believe as i don't get my highs artifically. If thats their definition of 'fun' then they lead a superficial life.
I can understand where u are comming from. But even though i don't go out with any of my friends i always have something to fill the time with. And if i'm lonely, i do some revision, listen to music or watch TV. I'd rather be doing that than getting alcohol poisoning and it can be a more effective use of your time. Why not join some clubs or societies...Or perhaps even get a job....you will always meet people there... u don't have to go clubbing etc. I personally do not mind pubs, just as long as i go in the afternoon. Its very peaceful and pleasent. And at weekends i work and see my boyfriend, so time doesn't drag and i'm only isolated from others when i feel i need to be.
Hope this helps