Getting over him

[beeniebabe]

Ok, I apologise if this question has been asked on here loads of times but.. How do I get over my ex boyfriend??
I've tried changing my look, going out on the piss and taking up yoga etc but I still can't seem to get over him. I must admit it generally does take time to get over someone but its stopping me from getting on with my life. I just don't seem that interested in anyone else and it's been almost a month now since we split up. It hasn't been this bad before with any of my previous boyfriends.
Please help!

[themax_1]

Originally posted by beeniebabe:
Ok, How do I get over my ex boyfriend??
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Why bother getting over him?
Once you've split, things can hardly be the same. And beside, it's a wide world, and u could find something that might want u just as u are.



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[kaz]

Oh I'm with you baby. day 5 and counting, isn't getting over someone shit? It's OK not to want any1 else, take a little "me-time" to chill out and not stress. Single is fine, you will only be ready to share a relationship with someone else when you're happy with yourself. I now it's a bit Oprah, but it's true. Use your friends, they're the best thing at a time like this.

Give yourself a break, a month isn't that long. Ur doing fine.

[Dark Knight]

its not a time thing, people do it differently and and varying speeds, u will look back on it somewhere down the line and think wow that was easy, but stick with it, do something that makes you happy, take up a hobby meet new people etc

[angel babe]

if im away from my boyf 4 a day i miss him so i dont think i cud get over mine if n e thing was to happen dont rush into another relationship if u are not ready as it will only cause problems. set some time to chill out and try to spend time with ur m8s they will understand.

angel
xxx

[Susie]

Read this: http://www.thesite.org.uk//relationships/lovelife/the_exfactor.html

Susie <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">

[angel babe]

just looking back at past posts this is the advice u gave someone

(After a break up you're naturally going to have regrets and doubts about whether you've done the right thing. You're always going to care about that person because they affected your life while you were with them. It would make things a lot easy if it was possible to just switch off your emotions connected with that person, but the best thing to do is just keep yourself busy and be with people who you can have a laugh with.
This girl couldn't have been right for you if your relationship didn't work out so get out there and find someone who deserves you.
Take care.)

this is v. good advice so just do wot u feel is right goodluck and be happy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
angel
xxxx

[kaz]

Thanks Susie.

It's nothing I don't know already, but just reading that made me feel more upbeat.

There will be good days and bad days, keep some chocolate ice cream in the fridge!

[Baby Bio]

or even in the freezer, if u want ice cream rather than a goey sludge!!!

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[beeniebabe]

Thanx, maybe I should listen to my own advice! I've just had a look at the website above and realised that I've done alot of the things that I shouldn't have done after splitting up. Maybe that's why I'm finding it more difficult.
Thanx anyway peeps.