HELP - it all feels too weird

[RachaelHolmes]

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[sarah21]

To get together you ust both feel good about it. If you have matured, and he has not, it may not work out at all (except when you were the one that needed "maturing" in the first place).

I have seen some friends get together with ex's before, and it rarely works: the one who makes the first move is either on the rebound from a new break-up or (s)he could not get anyone in the meantime and is just desparate