cant make her orgasm

[jiggerman2k]

Hi all,
I met my current girlfriend 2 months ago and at the time she was a virgin. We've slept together twice now and she is yet to have her first orgasm. I've tried everything and I still cant bring her off. She seems unable to relax during sex. I've tried aromatherapy,massage,oral,fingering and even tho she enjoys the sex she can't seem to orgasm ... is there anyone that can give me some advice.

[kza]

Look man, after only 2 times you can't expect much, so don't worry. But, heres a few pointers from a master. Get her crazy first, tease her and get her desperate for dick before you put it in. Then dont ram her hard. And you have to play with her clit. Oh yeah, spend a good 20 minutes licking her out before penetration.

Of course, you have to mix up positions, but the best way for a woman to come, when she is still a beginner and needs to get over her nerves, is her on top, so she is in control. Don't forget to rub that clit though.

Communication is important too. You have to get her to explain exactly what works for her and what doesn't.

[no.1.lou]

TAKE THIS ADVICE FROM ME AND YOU'LL SOON HAVE HER BEGGING FOR MORE!! TAKE YOUR TIME AND TALK 2 EACHOTHER FOR STARTERS. SHES PROBABLY STILL VERY NERVOUS SO U NEED 2 GET HER 2 RELAX.THESE THINGS TAKE TIME AND THINGS WILL GET MUCH BETTER FOR THE 2 OF U IN THE BEDROOM DEPARTMENT (WITH ENOUGH PRACTICE). SO JUST KEEP AT IT COZ AS THE SAYING GOES PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT, SO ENJOY THE PRACTICE <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">

[Lady 1]

Hello there;
firstly, three quarters of women NEVER orgasm during intercourse unless they have their clitoris stimulated as well-fact.
The most sensitive part is her clitoris so it's important to discover if she needs this added stimulation.
Secondly, it's not your job to give her an orgasm but up to her to allow one to come.
Thirdly, during certain times during her cycle she will find it hard to orgasm-In fact we don't even need to come at these times because we are satisfied without. This is also a good time for a guy to enjoy a 'quicky' because she won't need you to make so much effort.
Read the book Mars and Venus in the Bedroom for some really good info on the subject.

[Tweety]

firstly, three quarters of women NEVER orgasm during intercourse unless they have their clitoris stimulated as well-fact.

totally agree, proven fact as i cant! i need that little extra but i find that blokes get paranoid about this, which is stupid as we are all different. anyway i wish i could without anything else as its bloody hard work for me & him...lol.

[mrdanns]

your lady friend needs to learn to do it for herself first...then she knows what she likes and wants so in theory she can then teach u what to do.simple.this is mrdanns bird by the way...and believe me i know, dont leave it to the man to fumble about, sort it out girls...then get back to being lazy and let him do the business.

[mrdanns]

your lady friend needs to learn to do it for herself first...then she knows what she likes and wants so in theory she can then teach u what to do.simple.this is mrdanns bird by the way...and believe me i know, dont leave it to the man to fumble about, sort it out girls...then get back to being lazy and let him do the business.

[latin dude]

u might try eating her ass man

[StrubbleS]

u might try eating her ass man

NOBODY FUCKING CARES FOR YOUR ADVICE IN 5 YEAR OLD THREADS. STOP IT YOU MORON.