Help!!

[Mia]

I've got a dilema ...
I'm totally in love with this gr8 guy but the problem is that he is married. Yes bit of a prob.
He's currently trying 2 find away 2 leave and i do believe that he will .. maybe.
I don't want 2b strung along and so-far i haven't slept with him so i that can c whether or not he really wants me 4 me. I really want 2 have sex with him but I don't want 2b his bit on the side.
What can i do? ... Help me!!!

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xxx Mia xxx

[brandonwalsh]

sounds pretty dodgy to me - and i'm a guy! how long has he been stringing you along like this?<P class="body">i'm of the opinion that there is so such thing as a soul-mate. there are loads of people out there who are compatable enough for every one of us. so if this one has too many problems to make it work, then you might want to move on. sounds clinical i know, but at least its practical!

[sarah21]

Having been there, my advice would be not to get involved with married men, hoping for a relationship (I'm not the 1st to say that they never leave). If you want a relationship, you are doing the right thing: do not have sex or any other type of committment until he has well and truly left the missus.<P class="body">On the other hand, if you have the hots for him, just have a good steamy 1nite stand. But do not repeat it or expect it to make him leave home!<P class="body">If my experience is anything to go by (thanx Mike, Jon and Grant) you will probably be cured of your desires by that one session! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">

[All For None And All For Me]

I think that this person is not worth it, if he is stringing you along like that!