Am I A Slag?

[BillieFREAK]

Lol but like I am a V but when I get drunk atm all I want to do is suck dick lmao :P And I really wanna loose it so I can like have more fun :/ I think I am becoming a slag, the guys are enjoying it! jaja x

[Eddish]

Losing your virginity isn't a gateway to suddenly having more fun.
If you want to lose it to anyone and fuck around, and take necessary precautions and are OK with the potential consequences, then that's your choice.
But honestly, if you do do that then you probably are going to look like a bit of a slag in the stereotypical sense.

IMO you should lose your virginity to someone you're comfortable with at the very least, and ideally have some kind of connection with. You only get your first time once, there is no "do over", so think about how you want that to be.

Why do you think that by losing it you'll suddenly start having more "fun" ?

[The Convincer]

Lol but like I am a V but when I get drunk atm all I want to do is suck dick lmao :P And I really wanna loose it so I can like have more fun :/ I think I am becoming a slag, the guys are enjoying it! jaja x

Good for you.

[SnuggleBubbles]

A teenager getting horny while drunk!?

I say Barnaby this is a most interesting new development and completely unheard of! Now let us ride the penny farthings to Bethnall and pick horse chestnuts from the green!

[StrubbleS]

I'm confused, do you want reassurance that you are not a slag, or do you want agreement and thumbs up that you are one?

What is it what you want? A boyfriend, to have a relationship and regular sexlife? Then I would suggest drinking less and working on your self-esteem to get one. Getting drunk "to be able to have fun", wanting to suck dicks, or sooner or later sucking dicks is driving you into alcoholism and maybe branding you a slag, in the eye of the guys present.

[amber-rose]

Lol but like I am a V but when I get drunk atm all I want to do is suck dick lmao :P And I really wanna loose it so I can like have more fun :/ I think I am becoming a slag, the guys are enjoying it! jaja x
I guess that if you were one of my friends I would think you were quite slutty but really I don't think it matters that much. Thing is, I just lost my virginity and it's really different to doing everything else when you're drunk which is what I would do too as this is the first relationship I've really been in. I think it depends how old you are too.
x

[moonlift]

When i first lost my V i thought i was the bee's knees now i just think im an idiot for losing it tbh.

[Kermit]

Do you want a slap or a medal? I'm going for the slap option.

So long as everyone's human, safe, happy and consenting do whatever the hell you want. Who cares what everyone else thinks?

[seaweed]

I think your a complete slut, if you carry on like that everyone will say what a slut they think you are as well (behind your back proberly)

No man will respect you or want a relationship with you.

Of course the guys are enjoying it, men like drunk sluts they can take advantage of.

[cuppatboys]

Meh you can do what you want, just try not to catch too many STI's from treating too many dicks like ducking apples.

[CoolMe]

I think your a complete slut, if you carry on like that everyone will say what a slut they think you are as well (behind your back proberly)

This is what I find really funny, girls get called sluts if they are sleeping around, yet I saw 2 different people in the space of 3 days... What does that make me?

I'm not saying what your doing is right, but people say when your drunk your real intentions do come out.

Your a teenager, you can have fun... But just be safe.

[g_angel]

yet I saw 2 different people in the space of 3 days... What does that make me?



A slut! Same thing for both sexes! ;)

I'm all for having fun, and believe me, I have - but you have to be safe when doing it.

[StrubbleS]

yet I saw 2 different people in the space of 3 days... What does that make me?

A Manslut. :razz:

[g_angel]

A Manslut. :razz:

No - just a slut. There is no difference!

[CoolMe]

Some would say 'Stud' :p lol!

[g_angel]

Some would say 'Stud' :p lol!

Thing is, I would happily call a guy OR a girl a stud (or whatever the female equivalent is) for having a bit of fun - with the caveat that they are actually doing it for fun (and safely), and not to boost low self esteem or to 'get back' at somebody (or some other stupid reason).

[The Leaf]

Go for it and enjoy yourself,you`ll only regret it if you dont.
Just remember to be safe.

[LadyNAt]

Tbh i lost my V when i was drunk. Bad thing is i don't remember it, the only reason i know i did was bcause there was video and camera footage from other people at the party. I do regret that so seriously just stick to having fun atm. When you find the right person then go for it but be careful.

[seaweed]

LadyNAt

Tbh i lost my V when i was drunk. Bad thing is i don't remember it, the only reason i know i did was bcause there was video and camera footage from other people at the party.

that and the dildo sticking out your arse haha

[g_angel]

Tbh i lost my V when i was drunk. Bad thing is i don't remember it, the only reason i know i did was bcause there was video and camera footage from other people at the party. I do regret that so seriously just stick to having fun atm. When you find the right person then go for it but be careful.

That really isn't a good way to lose it :(

[**helen**]

that and the dildo sticking out your arse haha

Woah, don't hold back on the sensitivity will you? I think it's really brave for someone to be honest about stuff like this.

[CoolMe]

Thing is, I would happily call a guy OR a girl a stud (or whatever the female equivalent is) for having a bit of fun - with the caveat that they are actually doing it for fun (and safely), and not to boost low self esteem or to 'get back' at somebody (or some other stupid reason).

Of course, I'm just 'Having fun' :)

[GoodFella]

Nah i wouldnt really call you a slag. Just someone who's young and, well, horny and trying things out.

[CoolMe]

Same, but i think im an idiot cos of who i lost it too >.<
(Dont take it personally teagen;) )

Woah! Teagen gets around!

[seaweed]

Woah, don't hold back on the sensitivity will you? I think it's really brave for someone to be honest about stuff like this.


Apologies, not the place for a quick wit.

[StrubbleS]

Thing is, I would happily call a guy OR a girl a stud

'Hehe, emily, you are quite the stud!"
*slap*

didn't go over well ^^

[wishing on a star*]

i think you need to decide wheather you are getting off with guys because you enjoy it or wheather you just want to be seen as this fun girl who everyone wants to know but either way you should be careful because you may end up getting yourself a reputation that you will not be able to shake off a few years down the line. whatever you decide to do about losing your virginity, just do it carefully or you may have an alltogether bigger dilema to deal with

[CoolMe]

It was brutal :nervous: really brutal :nervous:
It's taken me this long to recover :sour:

Was the shock of seeing something so small devistating... :chin:

[pill 'ed]

Nah i wouldnt really call you a slag. Just someone who's young and, well, horny and trying things out.

Rob wishes he met more girls like you in his teens. :p

[The Convincer]

She should give me her number. She sounds 'interesting'.

[xxxlittle-Minxxxx]

Hiii if you just wanna lose your v to anyone then tbh you have no respect for yourself. You lose your v when you feel ready and to a person you trust
I cant say much tho cos i lost mine at 12 and regret losing it now
i wish i was older :)
but yeah make sure you know he wont hurt you before and after u have sex
some lads only like one thing
xx

[Spawn of Stan]

Lol but like I am a V but when I get drunk atm all I want to do is suck dick lmao :P And I really wanna loose it so I can like have more fun :/ I think I am becoming a slag, the guys are enjoying it! jaja x

Yeah, hell yeah you are.

[MrG]

Im not sure, may need to get your mobile number and arrange to meet up in a bar, and I'll make a formal assesment. :lol:

[GoodFella]

Rob wishes he met more girls like you in his teens. :p

No, i wish i had met more guys like you :flirt:

[BillieFREAK]

And argh noone seems to get what I'm trying to say, maybe I phrased it wrong? I was just saying like wouldn't it be more fun if I wasn't a virgin? And I totally do want to loose it to someone who I love and who cares about me too, its just noone seems to be there in that way and its so frustrating constantly being on my own when all my friends and in there lovely long term relationships and stuff argh I hope you guys get what I mean now, sorry If I was unclear before I think I was drunk when I wrote this post

[xxxlittle-Minxxxx]

Yeh the thing is tho, I get branded a slag for giving a couple of BJ's for a laugh, yet why don't they get called players?
i dont get that
i got called a slag for losing my v when i was 12
and cos ive slept with 12 lads
yet when lads shag loadsa girls etc
there get bigged up

[BillieFREAK]

Exactly its so annoying, just because I like giving head I'm a slag but when guys finger someone at a party they get praised... So I'm not a slag I'm just having a laugh :flirt:

[xxxlittle-Minxxxx]

:yes: Exactly its so annoying, just because I like giving head I'm a slag but when guys finger someone at a party they get praised... So I'm not a slag I'm just having a laugh :flirt:
i say im having fun
ya only live once

[BillieFREAK]

Same thanks :)

[bluuelips]

It's just your hormones jumping around. Some get turned on by acting like a slut occasionally. It's sexy to have that ammount of confidence. But i'd advice you to not act like this if you wanna keep your self respect and the respect of others. Tryyyy and hold it in ;)

[bluuelips]

She should give me her number. She sounds 'interesting'.


she sounds about 14!!! ewww, you are?? lol

[CoolMe]

Just be careful who you tell, I made the mistake of telling my best friend and 2 other close mates and they all had a go at me telling me that I'm playing and im a bit of a whore.

I've learnt my lesson. Don't tell them :)

[BillieFREAK]

she sounds about 14!!! ewww, you are?? lol

If your talking about me I'm nearly 17 :banghead:

[notanotherusername!]

It's fine wanting a bit of fun, but as you said 'giving bj's for a laugh' gets you branded as a slag. But to them (don't mean to be offensive) you probably come across as easy. Therefore to them it looks like you will go with anyone, and to them that equals slag?

[Smartie]

You want to be careful though, give BJs for a 'laugh' will deffo get you a reputation.