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Cosmo
17-09-2007, 11:13 PM
Hiya

Just looking for abit of advice. I've met this girl a few weeks ago and i instantly clicked with her, never before i have felt like this about someone, even with people who i have had relationships with. Anyway everyone keeps telling me that she likes me, but i try not to listen to there advice. She has a b/f but it is common knowledge that she is trying to break up wih him because she finds him to controlling. Whenever we are together she keeps telling me about guys that have whistled at her, or been flirting with her. Is she trying to make me jealous to see how i will react? Also the other night i went out and she was upset that I didnt invite her.

Normally i'd just go for it without worrying but I like her so much that i wouldnt want to lose her friendship but if the signs are postive i'd want to go for it. What adive have you guys got? Should i go for it or not? There is another factor which i'd rather not go into but I have fallen for her so much that i'd rather just be her friend if the signs aren't there.
Jonny8888
17-09-2007, 11:20 PM
People can behave very strangely when they like someone. Why not talk to her and be vaguely suggestive and see where it goes from there
Cosmo
20-09-2007, 02:12 AM
So she just got me to read a list of 30 things she looks for in a guy, they pretty much all described me. She has a b/f though so what action should i take?
Sopycookie
20-09-2007, 08:58 AM
wait until she has broken up with him otherwise you could just be setting yourself up to be hurt.
Sofie
20-09-2007, 10:45 AM
wait until she has broken up with him otherwise you could just be setting yourself up to be hurt.

:yes:
I'm With Stupid
20-09-2007, 01:19 PM
Sorry to be a cynical bastard, but it sounds like she's trying to get you to be her safety net (i.e. you make a move on me, and then I know I've got someone to move onto when I break up with him). It can be a sign of insecurity, but then some good relationships have started this way. Make it obvious that you'd be interested if she breaks up with him, but don't do anything until then. Then see whether she's willing to cut all ties with him for the chance to go out with you instead, and you should find out how much she actually likes you.