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lucian124
12-03-2007, 03:39 PM
I am a white male who is 22 years old that never had sex in my life.I am actually very proud of that and want to keep it that way until i find the right girl i like to spend my life with.

I have being single for the last 3 years now.I am in my last year of college.A girl I met who is currently in first year has sort of made a move on me.We have hugged and hold hands.We also have touched each other not in sexual manner but in lovely manner.We like each other.

but i have one problem.I don't want to be in a relationship because college takes alot of my time and also I don't know where she from but it in another surburb.

I need some help.
Bri-namite
12-03-2007, 03:41 PM
Tell her what you've told us, just be honest :yes:
lucian124
12-03-2007, 03:49 PM
do you think it a good idea to be friends for now.when college is over do the dating or will people changed and you never get the chance to date her
Bri-namite
12-03-2007, 03:58 PM
do you think it a good idea to be friends for now.when college is over do the dating or will people changed and you never get the chance to date her

Well people and situations change, so who knows. You sound sensible enough, so enjoy the friendship and see if something else happens once you're finished college :)
lucian124
12-03-2007, 04:05 PM
I am going to ask her out.See what happens.
Teagan
12-03-2007, 04:13 PM
If you don't want a relationship, then tell her. I don't understand your problem ... :confused:
icey
12-03-2007, 04:56 PM
You dont have enough time? wft!? what course do you do?
cocoonrecs
12-03-2007, 05:10 PM
You dont have enough time? wft!? what course do you do?

My thoughts!!

Hardly urgent help required ?!
pink_glitter
12-03-2007, 05:34 PM
My thoughts!!

Hardly urgent help required ?!

because reacting that way is goin to give him good advice :rolleyes:
cocoonrecs
12-03-2007, 05:36 PM
because reacting that way is goin to give him good advice :rolleyes:

He answered his own question, so he didn't really need advice.
icey
12-03-2007, 05:41 PM
Well how is it an urgent situation? Sounds like the op is just nervous having never been in this situation before. Cant says ive ever known anyone 'not have enough time' to be able to manage a relationship at college. Even if its full time most people are only there for less than 20 hours a week!