Does she like me (yes, another one of those)

[Binks]

Hi,

there is a girl at my work who I really like.

We've talked briefly and exchanged glances a few times.

The other day as she walked past she asked how I was and said 'you're being awful quiet today'.

I took that as a green light that she wants to talk to me and get to know me. I mentioned it to a friend who dismissed it as probably nothing. What do you think?

[I'm With Stupid]

Surpirsingly, since she initiated a conversation with you, it might be possible that she wanted to talk to you?

[Namaste]

Well she's obviously interested in talking to you. Take it from there.

[bluewisdom]

Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. It's a little early to tell, don't you think? Try initiating a conversation yourself next time and see how she responds.

[StrubbleS]

Hi,

there is a girl at my work who I really like.

We've talked briefly and exchanged glances a few times.

The other day as she walked past she asked how I was and said 'you're being awful quiet today'.

I took that as a green light that she wants to talk to me and get to know me. I mentioned it to a friend who dismissed it as probably nothing. What do you think?

It's a start, go talk to her. you can't tell if she's interested in you at this point of time, tbh: I doubt it, because she won't have much of an opinion of you.

Change that!

[iNcognito]

I had a similar thread to this and although most people said she probably didn't like me, it ended up that she did :)

But anyways, I think that's a pretty good sign as if she wants to talk to you, she's sort of saying she wants to be with you too. I used to be greeted by things like "yay, you're on" (or along those lines) when I signed onto MSN.

So I'd say its a pretty good sign :)

Good luck!

[I'm With Stupid]

But anyways, I think that's a pretty good sign as if she wants to talk to you, she's sort of saying she wants to be with you too.
Be with you in what sense? I don't think her talking to him means that she fancies him (though she might). I think too many people (especially lads, I'm sorry to say) are too quick to assume that because someone likes spending time with them, and talks to them often, they want to go out with them. I don't mean to say, assume she doesn't unless she grabs you and kisses you, or hide your feelings for her, or anything like that. Just don't be planning your first date before you even know that she's into you. That's how you end up getting attached and end up far more gutted than you really should be if it turns out she didn't like you (or even worse, end up coming on too strong when she did have a thing for you).

[sophia]

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[jayjay620]

Gotta agree here!!

Ive made the mistake of jumping in at the deep end!

Go slow, remember, its work, so is complicated. All the more reason for a girl to think more carefully about taking anything any further.

In my experience, us guys think "work action, result!", where as most women are more likely to err on the side of caution, because of the ramifiactions if it all goes tits up...

You never know though! just play it cool, dont ask her out, flirt with her but only take the plunge if you're sure...

I actually made the mistake of asking a girl i was chatting up if she was single... i wish i hadnt now!! : )

good luck!

[iNcognito]

Be with you in what sense?
In the sense that she likes hanging out with you.
If you've known each other for ages then you can't really take that as a sign, but as in this case, they haven't known each other for too long so I'd think that was a positive move from her.

And I would agree with the other people who say you should be sure the other person likes you back before taking the plunge yourself.