falling for people....

[Girl_gunner]

....who are out of your league? why does it always happen:banghead:

[I'm With Stupid]

It doesn't. No-one's out of my league.

[Girl_gunner]

you're alucky one

[I'm With Stupid]

Haha. Nah seriously, people are only out of your league because you believe they're out of your league. You'll come across plenty of people who don't fancy you in your lifetime, but it's only you who can dismiss them as never likely to be interested because they're "out of your league". That's different to falling for someone who doesn't like you back (hell, I've had my share of that).

[JsT]

I know the feeling well. Nowt you can do bout it like. Its just a cunt.

[Namaste]

Nobody is 'out of your league' and anybody who thinks they are is probably a bellend.

Seriously, if you like somebody then go for it. If they turn you down then never mind, you'll like somebody else soon enough, even if it doesn't seem like it at the time.

[Fairy]

Leagues are a load of crap. Whoever invented them is mad. Either you fancy someone or you don't!

[squeal]

Insecure springs to mind.

Be more confident about yourself and that for one will make your more attractive to the opposite sex.

[Girl_gunner]

Insecure springs to mind.

Be more confident about yourself and that for one will make your more attractive to the opposite sex.
think you just hit the nail on the head. but how do u gain more confidence? hmm.

[playdead]

everyones out of my league but the people who i don't wanna go out with cause there my mates so i dont see them as boyfriends
it sucks. alot.

[HIT]

....who are out of your league? why does it always happen:banghead:
Probably because you know you cant get what you want. :(

[Sofie]

Probably because you know you cant get what you want. :(

:yes: It does seem like that for me. And I always like people I know can't have and will never have a chance with them at all. (And they're never interested either)

[Deep Fathom]

There are leagues, IMHO. There are more attractive people than others and there is a great deal of difference between many people. Sorry to say, but it is really quite obvious, taking the most abhorrent, ugly lady and seeing if the fittest guy in town wants to mess around with her.

Just an example. And generally leagues are wrong, and you should go for it. But they do exist, creeping around corners and looming over people. :p

[StrubbleS]

I guess there are leagues, but nobody said people always have to and do play in their own leagues all the time.

Usually you fall for attractive people if you don't know them (much) and therefore can't be attracted to other qualities. In the moment I am attracted to a rather attractive lady and of course I try to offer her other qualities, when I lack the looks... I'll see if I cut it,...

If you don't risk something, those people will always stay out of your league.

[Pringle]

If people are going out with others, they're out of your league too :yes: So naturally I go & fall for them! :impissed: Who was the wise man/woman who said "the best guys are always gay or taken" Oh so true! (Or they turn out to be complete jackasses anyway!) :lol: To put it simply, being single is sooooooooooo much easier.

[Deep Fathom]

To put it simply, being single is sooooooooooo much easier.

Though can be lonely, depends on the circumstances I guess. I wouldn't want to be single, but I wouldn't want to be stuck in a hopeless relationship either. Single life though can be so much better (and easier, as you said - no restrictions, you're allowed to spread your wings). But single life + loneliness is a horrible combination. :) I'll vouch for that anyday.

[Deep Fathom]

double post... :mad:

[pill 'ed]

But single life + loneliness is a horrible combination. :) I'll vouch for that anyday.

Pretty much :(

[lost+confused]

single life+loneliness is horrible....especially when you fall for someone, who likes you....but you like them sooo much you cant stop thinking about them+it drives you mad :mad:

[lucifer devil]

he's only out of your league if you think he is!

[HIT]

he's only out of your league if you think he is!
Thats the fighting spirit. :thumb: