Halloween
29-11-2006, 05:44 PM
This summer on holiday I met a great guy and we stayed in touch since september. He's been over to visit me and I think if he wasn't living in England doing research for 6 months etc things may have developed into a proper relationship. Anyway, a few weeks ago I learnt I won a competition for a spa weekend and asked himself to come along, to which he's agreed and everything's set for next month.
The thing is, I've just started a new job and I've been pulling one of the barmen there for two weeks. I'm not sleeping with him as I don't know him that well it's just been texting and kissing blah de blah.
Considering I'm not really "going out" with either of them, do I need to tell the barman I've been pulling I'm away on a weekend with the holiday fella? In all fairness I don't know if either of them are pulling anybody on the side as well (though I can't imagine holiday guy is living like a priest over there!)
What does everyone think, tell them both? Or wait until me and the barman maybe start seeing each other (if he ever asks me out properly). Because if I were taken then there'd be no doubt in my mind to break it off with holiday guy completely.
The thing is, I've just started a new job and I've been pulling one of the barmen there for two weeks. I'm not sleeping with him as I don't know him that well it's just been texting and kissing blah de blah.
Considering I'm not really "going out" with either of them, do I need to tell the barman I've been pulling I'm away on a weekend with the holiday fella? In all fairness I don't know if either of them are pulling anybody on the side as well (though I can't imagine holiday guy is living like a priest over there!)
What does everyone think, tell them both? Or wait until me and the barman maybe start seeing each other (if he ever asks me out properly). Because if I were taken then there'd be no doubt in my mind to break it off with holiday guy completely.