GoodFella
27-05-2006, 12:02 PM
Me again :)
Well kinda in a pickle at the minute, not quite sure what the right thing is to do. Well im sure some of you know the situation i was in a while back with this girl from work i was seeing that all went abit pearshaped.
If you don't know heres an uber quick summary. Seeing a girl for about 3 months, she had just come out of a relationship, but she stopped things with me because she said she didnt want to become attached with someone again, last couple of months she kinda kept me hanging, i had fallen for her so kept feeling the way i did about her. Then she tells me that she decided a while back she only wanted to be friends but didnt want to tell me. Then she tells me she wants to be with someone else which well .. you can imagine how that felt.
Anyway the situation kinda went out of control, we just argued and argued. She wanted me to just suddenly be friends with her but she couldnt really understand how i felt knowing that i still felt alot for her and that she was now with someone else. Really is a horrible feeling and can't really seem to get rid of it.
Maybe i have been abit of a twat in the whole situation, i've found it hard recently to be around her ... like a work. I mean i don't want to ignore her or avoid her, just seems that i have been and shes told me that that is hurting her too.
I mean i still do really care about her and i want to be friends with her to make her happy, but i dunno if i do that it will just end up in more hurt for me. But then if it carries on like this i will lose her forever.
Could it work out as just being friends? Has been a really shit situation, guess i've learnt alot from it though. Next time i'll learn to be more careful.
Well kinda in a pickle at the minute, not quite sure what the right thing is to do. Well im sure some of you know the situation i was in a while back with this girl from work i was seeing that all went abit pearshaped.
If you don't know heres an uber quick summary. Seeing a girl for about 3 months, she had just come out of a relationship, but she stopped things with me because she said she didnt want to become attached with someone again, last couple of months she kinda kept me hanging, i had fallen for her so kept feeling the way i did about her. Then she tells me that she decided a while back she only wanted to be friends but didnt want to tell me. Then she tells me she wants to be with someone else which well .. you can imagine how that felt.
Anyway the situation kinda went out of control, we just argued and argued. She wanted me to just suddenly be friends with her but she couldnt really understand how i felt knowing that i still felt alot for her and that she was now with someone else. Really is a horrible feeling and can't really seem to get rid of it.
Maybe i have been abit of a twat in the whole situation, i've found it hard recently to be around her ... like a work. I mean i don't want to ignore her or avoid her, just seems that i have been and shes told me that that is hurting her too.
I mean i still do really care about her and i want to be friends with her to make her happy, but i dunno if i do that it will just end up in more hurt for me. But then if it carries on like this i will lose her forever.
Could it work out as just being friends? Has been a really shit situation, guess i've learnt alot from it though. Next time i'll learn to be more careful.